Changing Family Relationships

Learning Objectives

  • Examine changes in family relationships during adolescence
  • Identify the three key components of good parenting
  • Describe the impact of different parenting styles on children’s development
  • Examine short term-and long term consequences of non-traditional family structures
  • Describe issues regarding abuse and neglect
  • Examine concerns about childhood stress and trauma

As adolescents work to form their identities, they pull away from their parents, and the peer group becomes very important (Shanahan, McHale, Osgood, & Crouter, 2007). Despite spending less time with their parents, most teens report positive feelings toward them (Moore, Guzman, Hair, Lippman, & Garrett, 2004). Warm and healthy parent-child relationships have been associated with positive child outcomes, such as better grades and fewer school behavior problems, in the United States as well as in other countries (Hair et al., 2005).

Although peers take on greater importance during adolescence, family relationships remain essential too. One of the fundamental changes during adolescence involves a renegotiation of parent-child relationships. As adolescents strive for more independence and autonomy during this time, different aspects of parenting become more salient.

In this chapter, we will explore the changing relationship between adolescents and their families. We will consider the key components of effective parenting and how to implement them with teenagers. We will discuss the impact of child maltreatment on the developing teen. Finally, we will review other family dynamics that may impact development.