Leaving It At The Office
Chelsea Schnorrbusch and Leah Ward
Key WORDS
Anxiety Management | Allowing yourself to experience anxiety but also processing the internal skills to control and understand anxiety so that it does not bleed over into responses to patients |
Assuming Causality | Incorrectly assigning the blame or responsibility for adverse events to ourselves |
Catastrophizing | Anticipating the worst outcome |
Cognitive Errors | Exaggerated or irrational thinking patterns that often cause psychological distress |
Cognitive Restructuring | A technique to combat errors in thinking; reframing cognitive errors in a way that is more realistic |
Conceptualizing Ability | The ability to draw on professional theory and to comprehend the patient’s dynamics in relation to the therapeutic alliance |
Countertransference | Internal and external reactions in which unresolved conflicts are implicated |
Dichotomous Thinking | Either-or thinking which is both a cause and result of psychotherapist distress |
Empathy | Allows the therapist to focus on the patient’s needs despite the difficulties they may be experiencing |
Musturbations | The belief by some individuals that they must absolutely meet often perfectionist goals in order to achieve success, approval, or comfort |
Selective Abstraction | The mistake of believing that the only events that matter are failures and that you should measure yourself by errors |
Self-insight | The extent to which the therapist is aware of their own feelings, including countertransference, and understands their basis |
Self-monitoring | Using thoughtful reflection, collecting data on our assumptions, concerned sharing with significant others, and other methods that may alert us to the self-deceptions we hold in our thoughts |
Key takeaways
- As human beings, we (including psychotherapists) experience cognitive errors, musturbations, and countertransference reactions. Recognizing these and managing them essential components of self-care as a psychotherapist.
- It can be helpful for clinicians to get another therapist’s viewpoint on our thinking (as a second step to self-monitoring) to inspire self-awareness and insight into our potential cognitive errors..
- “Intellectual insight by itself is about as efficacious as providing a starving person with only a dinner menu. But awareness and insight begin the process of cognitive restructuring” (p. 117).
- Albert Ellis’s list of 5 common therapist “musturbations”:
- I must be successful with my patients, practically all of the time.
- I must always make brilliant interpretations or empathetic responses.
- I must help my clients more.
- I must not fail with any of my clients, but if I do, it is my fault and I’m a lousy person!
- I must be one of the world’s most outstanding therapists.
- Every therapy session with clients (including difficult clients) must be good.
- I must be an eminent therapist.
- I must be liked and respected by all my clients.
- I must like all my clients, but if I do not, I must not allow myself to have negative feelings toward them.
- I must not insist my clients work too hard in therapy.
- I must avoid sensitive issues that might disturb or upset my clients.
- Since I am a hard-working therapist, my clients should be equally persevering.
- I must be able to enjoy myself during therapy.
- I must use therapeutic techniques that I enjoy regardless of their benefit to the client.
- I must use only simple techniques that will not drain my energy.
- My sessions can be used to solve my own problems as well as the client’s problems.
- I must be successful with my patients, practically all of the time.
- To combat these, authors recommended, “… practicing rational beliefs, practicing appropriate emotions (such as annoyance instead of misery), and practicing desirable behaviors” (p. 120).
- Five skills for managing countertransference (Gelso & Hayes, 2002):
- Self-insight
- Self-integration
- Empathy
- Anxiety management
- Conceptualizing ability
- Self-monitoring of internal dialogue is the first step of cognitive restructuring.
- Solution focused therapy suggests that we switch from a problem to a solution mindset. We should focus on what is controllable and changeable with the client, rather than focusing on their negative reactions or labeling client’s problematic way of being.
- Humanistic Therapy suggests we should cognitively restructure our reactions to clients via empathy.
- We alleviate emotional distress by practicing: (a) rational beliefs, (b) appropriate emotions, and (c) desirable behavior.
- Cognitive errors common to psychotherapists: