{"id":196,"date":"2017-12-06T16:37:08","date_gmt":"2017-12-06T16:37:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/courses.lumenlearning.com\/suny-culturalanthropology\/chapter\/family_and_marriage\/"},"modified":"2019-11-13T14:15:17","modified_gmt":"2019-11-13T14:15:17","slug":"family_and_marriage","status":"publish","type":"chapter","link":"https:\/\/courses.lumenlearning.com\/suny-geneseo-culturalanthropology\/chapter\/family_and_marriage\/","title":{"raw":"Family, Marriage, and Sociocultural Change","rendered":"Family, Marriage, and Sociocultural Change"},"content":{"raw":"<div id=\"_idContainer269\" class=\"Basic-Text-Frame\">\r\n<div class=\"textbox learning-objectives\">\r\n<h3>Learning Objectives<\/h3>\r\n<ul>\r\n \t<li class=\"Learning-Objectives\">Describe the variety of human families cross-culturally with examples.<\/li>\r\n \t<li class=\"Learning-Objectives\">Discuss variation in parental rights and responsibilities.<\/li>\r\n \t<li class=\"Learning-Objectives\">Distinguish between matrilineal, patrilineal, and bilateral kinship systems.<\/li>\r\n \t<li class=\"Learning-Objectives\">Identify the differences between kinship establish by blood and kinship established by marriage.<\/li>\r\n \t<li class=\"Learning-Objectives\">Evaluate the differences between dowry and bridewealth as well as between different types of post-marital residence.<\/li>\r\n \t<li class=\"Learning-Objectives\">Recognize patterns of family and marriage and explain why these patterns represent rational decisions within the cultural contexts.<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n<\/div>\r\n<\/div>\r\n<div id=\"_idContainer303\" class=\"_idGenObjectStyleOverride-1\">\r\n<h2 class=\"H1\">INTRODUCTION <em>by\u00a0Mary Kay Gilliland<\/em><\/h2>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">Family and marriage may at first seem to be familiar topics. Families exist in all societies and they are part of what makes us human. However, societies around the world demonstrate tremendous variation in cultural understandings of family and marriage. Ideas about how people are related to each other, what kind of marriage would be ideal, when people should have children, who should care for children, and many other family related matters differ cross-culturally. While the function of families is to fulfill basic human needs such as providing for children, defining parental roles, regulating sexuality, and passing property and knowledge between generations, there are many variations or patterns of family life that can meet these needs. This chapter introduces some of the more common patterns of family life found around the world. It is important to remember that within any cultural framework variation does occur. Some variations on the standard pattern fall within what would be culturally considered the \u201crange of acceptable alternatives.\u201d Other family forms are not entirely accepted, but would still be recognized by most members of the community as reasonable.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"H1\">KINSHIP AND DESCENT\u00a0<em>by\u00a0Mary Kay Gilliland<\/em><\/h2>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\"><strong><b>Kinship<\/b><\/strong> is the word used to describe culturally recognized ties between members of a family. Kinship includes the terms, or social statuses, used to define family members and the roles or expected behaviors family associated with these statuses. Kinship encompasses relationships formed through blood connections (<b>consanguineal<\/b>), such as those created between parents and children, as well as relationships created through marriage ties (<b>affinal<\/b>), such as in-laws (see Figure 1). Kinship can also include \u201cchosen kin,\u201d who have no formal blood or marriage ties, but consider themselves to be family. Adoptive parents, for instance, are culturally recognized as parents to the children they raise even though they are not related by blood.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<div class=\"_idGenObjectLayout-1\">\r\n<div id=\"_idContainer278\">\r\n<div id=\"_idContainer271\">\r\n\r\n[caption id=\"\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"500\"]<img class=\"_idGenObjectAttribute-1\" src=\"https:\/\/s3-us-west-2.amazonaws.com\/courses-images\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2795\/2017\/12\/06163619\/family_figure_1.png\" alt=\"Young Maasai women, affinal kin, share domestic responsibilities.\" width=\"500\" height=\"330\" \/> Figure 1: These young Maasai women from Western Tanzania are affinal kin, who share responsibilities for childcare. Maasai men often have multiple wives who share domestic responsibilities. Photo used with permission of Laura Tubelle de Gonz\u00e1lez.[\/caption]\r\n\r\n<\/div>\r\n<\/div>\r\n<\/div>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">While there is quite a bit of variation in families cross-culturally, it is also true that many families can be categorized into broad types based on what anthropologists call a <strong>kinship system<\/strong>. The <b>kinship system<\/b> refers to the pattern of culturally recognized relationships between family members. Some cultures create kinship through only a single parental line or \u201cside\u201d of the family. For instance, families in many parts of the world are defined by <b><strong>patrilineal descent<\/strong>:<\/b> the paternal line of the family, or fathers and their children. In other societies, <strong><b>matrilineal descent<\/b><\/strong> defines membership in the kinship group through the maternal line of relationships between mothers and their children. Both kinds of kinship are considered<strong> <b>unilineal<\/b><\/strong> because they involve descent through only one line or side of the family. It is important to keep in mind that systems of descent define culturally recognized \u201ckin,\u201d but these rules do not restrict relationships or emotional bonds between people. Mothers in patrilineal societies have close and loving relationships with their children even though they are not members of the same patrilineage.[footnote]In a patrilineal society, children are members of their father\u2019s patrilineage. A mother belongs to her own father\u2019s patrilineage, while the children belong to their father\u2019s patrilinage.[\/footnote] In the United States, for instance, last names traditionally follow a pattern of patrilineal descent: children receive last names from their fathers. This does not mean that the bonds between mothers and children are reduced. <strong><b>Bilateral descent<\/b><\/strong> is another way of creating kinship. Bilateral descent means that families are defined by descent from both the father and the mother\u2019s sides of the family. In bilateral descent, which is common in the United States, children recognize both their mother\u2019s and father\u2019s family members as relatives.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\"><span style=\"font-size: 1rem;text-align: initial\">Matrilineages and patrilineages are not just mirror images of each other. They create groups that behave somewhat differently. Contrary to some popular ideas, matrilineages are not <\/span><strong style=\"font-size: 1rem;text-align: initial\"><b>matriarchal<\/b><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 1rem;text-align: initial\">. The terms \u201cmatriarchy\u201d and \u201cpatriarchy\u201d refer to the power structure in a society. In a patriarchal society, men have more authority and the ability to make more decisions than do women. A father may have the right to make certain decisions for his wife or wives, and for his children, or any other dependents. In matrilineal societies, men usually still have greater power, but women may be subject more to the power of their brothers or uncles (relatives through their mother\u2019s side of the family) rather than their fathers.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">Among the matrilineal Hopi, for example, a mothers\u2019 brother is more likely to be a figure of authority than a father. The mother\u2019s brothers have important roles in the lives of their sisters\u2019 children. These roles include ceremonial obligations and the responsibility to teach the skills that are associated with men and men\u2019s activities. Men are the keepers of important ritual knowledge so while women are respected, men are still likely to hold more authority.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">The Nayar of southern India offer an interesting example of gender roles in a matrilineal society. In the seventeenth and eighteenth centuries, men and women did not live together after marriage because the husbands, who were not part of the matrilineage, were not considered relatives. Women lived for their entire lives in extended family homes with their mothers and siblings. The male siblings in the household had the social role of father and were important father figures in the lives of their sisters\u2019 children. The biological fathers of the children had only a limited role in their lives. Instead, these men were busy raising their own sisters\u2019 children. Despite the matrilineal focus of the household, Nayar communities were not matriarchies. The position of power in the household was held by an elder male, often the oldest male sibling.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">The consequences of this kind of system are intriguing. Men did not have strong ties to their biological offspring. Marriages were fluid and men and women could have more than one spouse, but the children always remained with their mothers.[footnote]Kathleen Gough, \u201cVariation in Matrilineal Systems,\u201d in D. Schneider and K. Gough, eds., <em>Matrilineal Kinship<\/em>, Part 2 (Berkeley: University of California Press, 1961). See also Kathleen Gough, <em>The Traditional Kinship System of the Nayars of Malabar<\/em> (Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 1954).[\/footnote] Cross-culturally it does seem to be the case that in matrilineal societies women tend to have more freedom to make decisions about sex and marriage. Children are members of their mother\u2019s kinship group, whether the mother is married or not, so there is often less concern about the social legitimacy of children or fatherhood.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">Some anthropologists have suggested that marriages are less stable in matrilineal societies than in patrilineal ones, but this varies as well. Among the matrilineal Iroquois, for example, women owned the longhouses. Men moved into their wives\u2019 family houses at marriage. If a woman wanted to divorce her husband, she could simply put his belongings outside. In that society, however, men and women also spent significant time apart. Men were hunters and warriors, often away from the home. Women were the farmers and tended to the home. This, as much as matrilineality, could have contributed to less formality or disapproval of divorce. There was no concern about the division of property. The longhouse belonged to the mother\u2019s family, and children belonged to their mother\u2019s clan. Men would always have a home with their sisters and mother, in their own matrilineal longhouse.[footnote]See for example Merlin Myers, Households and Families of the Longhouse Iroquois at Six Nations Reserve (Lincoln, NE: University of Nebraska Press, 2006).[\/footnote]<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"H1\">MARRIAGE AND FAMILY\u00a0<em>by\u00a0Mary Kay Gilliland<\/em><\/h2>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">In a basic biological sense, women give birth and the minimal family unit in most, though not all societies, is mother and child. Cultures elaborate that basic relationship and build on it to create units that are culturally considered central to social life. Families grow through the birth or adoption of children and through new adult relationships often recognized as marriage. In our own society, it is only culturally acceptable to be married to one spouse at a time though we may practice what is sometimes called <strong><b>serial monogamy<\/b><\/strong>, or, marriage to a succession of spouses one after the other. This is reinforced by religious systems, and more importantly in U.S. society, by law. Plural marriages are not allowed; they are illegal although they do exist because they are encouraged under some religions or ideologies. In the United States, couples are legally allowed to divorce and remarry, but not all religions cultural groups support this practice.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">When anthropologists talk of family structures, we distinguish among several standard family types any of which can be the typical or preferred family unit in a culture. First is the <strong><b>nuclear family<\/b><\/strong>: parents who are in a culturally-recognized relationship, such as marriage, along with their minor or dependent children. This family type is also known as a <b>conjugal family<\/b>. A <b>non-conjugal<\/b> nuclear family might be a single parent with dependent children, because of the death of one spouse or divorce or because a marriage never occurred. Next is the <strong><b>extended family<\/b><\/strong>: a family of at least three-generations sharing a household. A <strong><b>stem family<\/b><\/strong> is a version of an extended family that includes an older couple and one of their adult children with a spouse (or spouses) and children. In situations where one child in a family is designated to inherit, it is more likely that only the inheriting child will remain with the parents when he or she becomes an adult and marries. While this is often an oldest male, it is sometimes a different child. In Burma or Myanmar for example, the youngest daughter was considered the ideal caretaker of elderly parents, and was generally designated to inherit.[footnote]Melford Spiro, <em>Kinship and Marriage in Burma: A Cultural and Psychodynamic Analysis<\/em> (Berkeley, CA: University of California Press, 1977).[\/footnote]\u00a0The other children will \u201cmarry out\u201d or find other means to support themselves.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">A <strong><b>joint family<\/b><\/strong> is a very large extended family that includes multiple generations. Adult children of one gender, often the males, remain in the household with their spouses and children and they have collective rights to family property. Unmarried adult children of both genders may also remain in the family group. For example, a household could include a set of grandparents, all of their adult sons with their wives and children, and unmarried adult daughters. A joint family in rare cases could have dozens of people, such as the traditional<em> <em>zadruga<\/em><\/em> of Croatia, discussed in greater detail below.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\"><strong><b>Polygamous families<\/b><\/strong> are based on plural marriages in which there are multiple wives or, in rarer cases, multiple husbands. These families may live in nuclear or extended family households and they may or may not be close to each other spatially (see discussion of households below). The terms step family or blended family are used to describe families that develop when adults who have been widowed or divorced marry again and bring children from previous partnerships together. These families are common in many countries with high divorce rates. A wonderful fictional example was <em>The Brady Bunch<\/em> of 1970s television.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h3 class=\"H2\">Who Can You Marry?<\/h3>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">Cultural expectations define appropriate potential marriage partners. Cultural rules emphasizing the need to marry within a cultural group are known as <strong><b>endogamy<\/b><\/strong>. People are sometimes expected to marry within religious communities, to marry someone who is ethnically or racially similar or who comes from a similar economic or educational background. These are endogamous marriages: marriages within a group. Cultural expectations for marriage outside a particular group are called <strong><b>exogamy<\/b><\/strong>. Many cultures require that individuals marry only outside their own kinship groups, for instance. In the United States laws prevent marriage between close relatives such as first cousins. There was a time in the not so distant past, however, when it was culturally preferred for Europeans, and Euro-Americans to marry first cousins. Royalty and aristocrats were known to betroth their children to relatives, often cousins. Charles Darwin, who was British, married his first cousin Emma. This was often done to keep property and wealth in the family.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">In some societies, however, a cousin might be a preferred marriage partner. In some Middle Eastern societies, <strong><b>patrilateral cousin marriage<\/b><\/strong>\u2014marrying a male or female cousin on your father\u2019s side\u2014is preferred. Some cultures prohibit marriage with a cousin who is in your lineage but, prefer that you marry a cousin who is not in your lineage. For example, if you live in a society that traces kinship patrilineally, cousins from your father\u2019s brothers or sisters would be forbidden as marriage partners, but cousins from your mother\u2019s brothers or sisters might be considered excellent marriage partners.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\"><b>Arranged marriages<\/b> were typical in many cultures around the world in the past including in the United States. Marriages are arranged by families for many reasons: because the families have something in common, for financial reasons, to match people with others from the \u201ccorrect\u201d social, economic or religious group, and for many other reasons. In India today, some people practice a kind of modified arranged marriage practice that allows the potential spouses to meet and spend time together before agreeing to a match. The meeting may take place through a mutual friend, a family member, community matchmaker, or even a Marriage Meet even in which members of the same community (caste) are invited to gather (see Figure 5). Although arranged marriages still exist in urban cities such as Mumbai, love matches are increasingly common. In general, as long as the social requirements are met, love matches may be accepted by the families involved.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n[caption id=\"attachment_187\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"400\"]<img class=\"wp-image-187\" src=\"https:\/\/s3-us-west-2.amazonaws.com\/courses-images\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2795\/2017\/12\/06163652\/family_figure_5-e1512755594868-878x1024.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"466\" \/> Figure 5: This advertisement for \u201cMarriage Meet\u201d in Mumbai, India welcomes \u201cboys\u201d and \u201cgirls\u201d from the community to participate in a Marriage Meet, in which young people can mingle with and get to know potential spouses in a fun atmosphere. Photo used with permission of Laura Tubelle de Gonz\u00e1lez.[\/caption]\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">Polygamy refers to any marriage in which there are multiple partners. There are two kinds of polygamy: polygyny and polyandry. <strong><b>Polygyny<\/b><\/strong> refers to marriages in which there is one husband and multiple wives. In some societies that practice polygyny, the preference is for <strong><b>sororal polygyny<\/b><\/strong>, or the marriage of one man to several sisters. In such cases, it is sometimes believed that sisters will get along better as co-wives.<strong><b> Polyandry<\/b> <\/strong>describes marriages with one wife and multiple husbands. As with polygyny, <strong><b>fraternal polyandry <\/b><\/strong>is common and involves the marriage of a woman to a group of brothers.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">In some cultures, if a man\u2019s wife dies, especially if he has no children, or has young children, it is thought to be best for him to marry one of his deceased wife\u2019s sisters. A sister, it is believed, is a reasonable substitution for the lost wife and likely a more loving mother to any children left behind. This practice might also prevent the need to return property exchanged at marriage, such as <strong><b>dowry<\/b><\/strong> (payments made to the groom\u2019s family before marriage), or <b><strong>bridewealth<\/strong> <\/b>(payments made to the bride\u2019s family before marriage). The practice of a man marrying the sister of his deceased wife is called <strong><b>sororate<\/b> <\/strong>marriage. In the case of a husband\u2019s death, some societies prefer that a woman marry one of her husband\u2019s brothers, and in some cases this might be preferred even if he already has a wife. This practice is called <strong><b>levirate<\/b><\/strong> marriage. This latter practice is described in the Old Testament.[footnote]Laura Tubelle de Gonz\u00e1lez, \u201cModern Arranged Marriage in Mumbai\u201d <em>Teaching Anthropology: SACC Notes<\/em> 19 (2015). http:\/\/sacc-dev.americananthro.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/TASN-191-192-spring-fall-20131.pdf.\u00a0[\/footnote]<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h3 class=\"H2\">Family Size<\/h3>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">Cultural rules generally define not only who makes up a family but also how many people should be in it. In some cultures, larger families are considered ideal. In others, smaller families are preferred. These ideas are often linked to both practical and ideological considerations. Practical considerations might include the availability of housing, work patterns, childcare, the economic contribution children make to a family, or the cost of raising children. Ideological considerations include religious values related to families. In the 1990s, I carried out field research in Croatia, investigating ideas about families. An overwhelming majority of the people I interviewed believed that the ideal family would include three children. Most of these families commented that in their own living memories people preferred as many children as possible so that there would be assistance for farm work. When I was there, however, large families were no longer regarded as practical. Within the same general region, families in urban settings overwhelmingly said that one child was ideal. A shortage of housing was the single most important factor for limiting family size to one child in cities. In both the rural and urban settings in Croatia, most people were Roman Catholic and may have been ideologically predisposed to larger families, but practical considerations were more important to both groups when it came to matters of family size.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">During the same period in the 1990s, it was common for families in the United States to say that the ideal family included two children and preferably one of each gender (anecdotal). This of course varies based on factors which include, but are not limited to the ethnicity and religion of the family. In another example, the People\u2019s Republic of China, where I lived and worked, had an official one-child policy.[footnote]The one-child policy was introduced in 1979. It was phased out beginning in 2015 and was replaced by a two-child policy.[\/footnote]\u00a0A family that included only one child was not a widespread cultural ideal. Most families wished for more children, but had to settle for less.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"H2\">Creating Families: Patterns of Marriage\u00a0<em>by\u00a0Mary Kay Gilliland<\/em><\/h2>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">As described above, families can be created in many different ways. A marriage is a cultural, social, and legal process that brings two or more individuals together to create a new family unit. Most cultures have ideas about how marriages should be arranged ( whether by families or by the individuals involved), at what age this should occur, what the married partners should have in common (including economic status, religion, ethnicity and so on), and what cultural, religious and legal processes make a marriage valid. In the United States, strong cultural norms suggest that individuals should marry for love and not for other reasons. It is not unusual, however, for communities to teach children to follow certain group norms in choosing a marriage partner. Some religious communities, for example, will not recognize marriages contracted across religious lines. Some families strongly prefer that their children marry individuals with similar economic, cultural, or ethnic backgrounds. Because families tend to socialize with other families similar to themselves, young people are more likely to meet others similar to themselves.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h3 class=\"H2\">Marriage Exchanges: Dowry and Bridewealth<\/h3>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">In many societies, marriages are affirmed with an exchange of property. This is usually the case in places where families have a hand in arranging a marriage. A property exchange recognizes the challenges faced by a family that loses a member and by a family that takes on a new member. These practices also reflect different notions about the value of the new family member.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">Dowry payments are known from U.S. and Western European history. A <strong><b>dowry <\/b><\/strong>is a gift given by a bride\u2019s family to either the bride or to the groom\u2019s family at the time of the marriage. In societies that practice dowry, families often spend many years accumulating the gift. In some villages in the former Yugoslavia, the dowry was meant to provide for a woman if she became a widow. The dowry was her share of her family\u2019s property and reflected the tradition that land was usually inherited by a woman\u2019s brothers. The dowry might include coins, often woven together in a kind of apron and worn on her wedding day. This form of dowry also represented a statement of wealth, prestige or high status for both families; her family\u2019s ability to give this kind of wealth, and the prestige of the family who was acquiring a desirable new bride. Her dowry also could include linens and other useful items to be used during her years as a wife. In more recent times, dowries have become extravagant, including things like refrigerators, cars, and houses.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">A dowry can also represent the higher status of the groom\u2019s family and its ability to demand a payment for taking on the economic responsibility of a young wife. This was of thinking about dowry is more typical of societies in which women are less valued than men. A good dowry enables a woman\u2019s family to marry into a better family. In parts of India, a dowry could sometimes be so large that it would be paid in installments. Bride burnings, killing a bride, could happen if her family did not continue to make the agreed upon payments (though there may be other reasons for this awful crime in individual cases). This of course is illegal, but does sometimes occur.[footnote]There are many news reports about this practice. See for instance Subodh Varnal, \u201cDowry Death: One Bride Burnt Every Hour,\u201d <em>The Times of India<\/em>, January 27, 2012 http:\/\/timesofindia.indiatimes.com\/india\/Dowry-death-One-bride-burnt-every-hour\/articleshow\/11644691.cms[\/footnote]<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">Historically, dowry was most common in agricultural societies. Land was the most valuable commodity and usually land stayed in the hands of men. Women who did not marry were sometimes seen as a burden on their own families because they were not perceived as making an economic contribution and they represented another mouth to feed. A dowry was important for a woman to take with her into a marriage because the groom\u2019s family had the upper economic hand. It helped ease the tension of her arrival in the household, especially if the dowry was substantial.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\"><strong><b>Bridewealth<\/b><\/strong>, by contrast, often represents a higher value placed on women and their ability to work and produce children. Bridewealth is an exchange of valuables given from a man\u2019s family to the family of his new wife. Bridewealth is common in pastoralist societies in which people make their living by raising domesticated animals. The Masaai are example of one such group. A cattle-herding culture located in Kenya and Tanzania, the Maasai pay bridewealth based on the desirability of the woman. Culturally defined attributes such as her age, beauty, virginity, and her ability to work contribute to a woman\u2019s value. The economic value placed on women does not mean that women in such societies necessarily have much freedom, but it does sometimes give them some leverage in their new domestic situations. In rare cases, there might be simultaneous exchanges of dowry and bridewealth. In such cases, often the bridewealth gift was more of a token than a substantial economic contribution.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h3>Same-Sex Marriage<\/h3>\r\nThe first state to extend marriage rights was Massachusetts in 2003. By 2014, more than half of U.S. Americans said they believed same-sex couples should have the right to marry, and on June 26, 2015, in <em>Obergefell v. Hodges<\/em>, the U.S. supreme court declared that same-sex couples had the legal right to marry.[footnote]Justin McCarthy, \u201cSame-Sex Marriage Support Reaches New High at 55%.\u201d Gallup. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gallup.com\/poll\/169640\/sex-marriage-support-reaches-new-high.aspx\">http:\/\/www.gallup.com\/ poll\/169640\/sex-marriage-support-reaches-new-high.aspx<\/a>.[\/footnote] Few civil rights movements have seen such progress in such a short period of time. While many factors have influenced the shift in attitudes, sociologists and anthropologists have identified increased awareness of and exposure to LGBTQQIA+ people through the media and personal interactions as playing key roles.[footnote]Ellen Lewin and William Leap, <em>Out in Theory: The Emergence of Lesbian and Gay Anthropology<\/em> (Urbana: University of Illinois Press, 2002); William Leap and Ellen Lewin, <em>Out in the Field: Reflections of Lesbian and Gay Anthropologist<\/em> (Urbana: University of Illinois Press, 1996).[\/footnote]\r\n\r\nHowever, legalization of same-sex marriage has not been welcomed everywhere in the United States. Anthropologist Jessica Johnson\u2019s ethnographic work profiling a Seattle-based megachurch from 2006 through 2008 initially explored their efforts to oppose same-sex marriage. Later, she shifted her focus to the rhetoric of gender, masculinity, and cisgender sexuality used by the church and its pastor.[footnote]Jessica Johnson, \u201cThe Citizen-Soldier: Masculinity, War, and Sacrifice at an Emerging Church in Seattle, Washington.\u201d <em>Political and Legal Anthropology Review<\/em> 33 no. 2 (2010): 326\u2013351.[\/footnote] Official church communications dismissed homosexuality as aberrant and mobilized members to advocate against same-sex marriage. The church\u2019s efforts were not successful.\r\n\r\nInterestingly, activists and gender studies scholars express concern over incorporating marriage\u2014a heteronormative institution some consider oppressive\u2014into queer spaces not previously governed by state authority. These concerns may be overshadowed by a desire for normative lives and legal protections, but as sociologist Tamara Metz and others have argued, legally intertwining passion, romance, sexual intimacy, and economic rights and responsibilities is not necessarily a move in the right direction.[footnote]Tamara Metz, <em>Untying the Knot: Marriage, the State, and the Case for Their Divorce<\/em> (Princeton: Princeton University Press, 2010).[\/footnote] As Miriam Smith has written, \u201cWe must move beyond thinking of same-sex marriage and relationship recognition as struggles that pit allegedly normalized or assimilated same-sex couples against queer politics and sensibilities and, rather, recognize the increasingly complex gender politics of same-sex marriage and relationship recognition, a politics that implicates groups beyond the LGBT community.\u201d[footnote]Miriam Smith, \u201cGender Politics and the Same-Sex Marriage Debate in the United States,\u201d Social Politics 17 no. 1 (2010): 1\u201328. Quote is on p.1[\/footnote]\r\n<h3 class=\"H2\">Adoption<\/h3>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">Adoption is another way that people form family ties. In the United States, usually it is infants or minor children who are adopted by a non-parental family member like a grandparent, an aunt or uncle, or an older sibling, or by a non-family member. This is usually done when a biological parent is unable or unwilling to raise a child. The decision to give up a child through adoption is a complicated one, and one that parents do not make easily.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">In other societies, adoption is viewed differently. In some Pacific Island societies, children who are adopted are considered fortunate because they have two sets of parents; children are not given for adoption because a parent is unwilling or unable to care for them, but rather to honor the adoptive parents. Martha Ward described a young woman in <span class=\"CharOverride-6\">Pohnpei, Micronesia,<\/span> who had a child for her grandmother, to keep her company in her older years. In another case she described a child who went to dinner at a relative\u2019s house and stayed for a number of years in a kind of adoptive situation. In such cases, children retain relationships with biological and adoptive family members, and may even move fluidly between them.[footnote]Martha Ward, <em>Nest in the Wind: Adventures in Anthropology on a Tropical Island<\/em> (Long Grove, IL: Waveland Press, 2005).[\/footnote]<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">One of the more unusual forms of adoption is <b>adopted-daughter marriage<\/b>, or <em><span class=\"CharOverride-2\">sim pua<\/span><\/em> marriage. It is found in Taiwan and described by anthropologist Margery Wolf. Wolf worked in Taiwan in the mid-1900s. At that time, Taiwanese families strongly preferred sons over daughters. Sons stayed with their families in adulthood, produced the next generation, cared for parents in old age, and carried on the tradition of ancestor veneration so that one would not become a \u201cwandering ghost\u201d after death. Daughters were regarded as expensive. People believed that they raised daughters for someone else. Dowries and weddings for grown daughters were expensive. Families worried that they would not be able to find suitable husbands for their grown daughters, who would remain a burden on their natal families in their later years, not producers of children or contributors in any other way.[footnote] Margery Wolf, <em>Women and the Family in Rural Taiwan<\/em> (Palo Alto, CA: Stanford University Press, 1972).[\/footnote]<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">As a result a custom developed of giving up daughters to other families as future daughters-in-law. Mothers would give up their own daughters as infants, only to take in very quickly an adopted daughter from someone else. Sometimes the future wife was adopted before the family had a son. It was said that an adopted daughter\/daughter-in-law would \u201clead in a son.\u201d Adopted daughters were reportedly not treated well. They had to do housework, help with childcare, and were not given any privileges such as education. They were often older than their eventual husbands, and had a lower status in the family than their adoptive brothers. There were reports of an adopted daughter being treated badly by adopted siblings, and then being expected to later marry one of them. Wolf reports a very low birth rate among couples who were raised as siblings. Pressure to engage in these kinds of adoptions usually came from a mother-in-law, or the husband\u2019s mother, or a grandmother of the infant girl who had decision-making power in the family because she was the mother of an adult son. Grandmothers saw this kind of arrangement as advantageous to the family, according to Wolf, because birth mothers were more likely to be unhappy about losing a baby daughter, and because caring for another child brought in a future daughter-in-law.[footnote]Ibid.[\/footnote]<\/p>\r\n\r\n<div class=\"textbox shaded\">\r\n<h3 class=\"Text-Box-head\"><span class=\"Emphasis CharOverride-7\">ETHNOGRAPHIC CASE STUDY: What Can We Learn from the Na? Shattering Ideas about Family and Relationships<\/span><\/h3>\r\n<h4 class=\"Text-Box-author\"><span class=\"Emphasis CharOverride-8\">By Tami Blumenfield<\/span><\/h4>\r\n<p class=\"Text-Box-para\">We have certain expectations about the trajectories of relationships and family life in the United States\u2014young people meet, fall in love, purchase a diamond, and then marry. To some extent, this specific view of family is changing as same-sex relationships and no-longer-new reproductive technologies expand our views of what family can and cannot be. Still, quite often, we think about family in a rigid, heteronormative context, assuming that everyone wants the same thing.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Text-Box-para\">What if we think about family in an entirely different way? In fact, many people already do. In 2014, 10 percent of American adults lived in cohabitating relationships. Meanwhile, 51 percent were married in state-endorsed relationships, and that percentage has been dropping fast.<span class=\"Endnote-reference CharOverride-9\">[footnote]See<a href=\"https:\/\/contemporaryfamilies.org\/the-way-we-still-never-were-brief-report\/\"><span class=\"Hyperlink\">https:\/\/contemporaryfamilies.org\/the-way-we-still-never-were-brief-report\/<\/span><\/a>and<a href=\"https:\/\/www.pri.org\/stories\/%202014-09-14\/singles-now-outnumber-married-people-america-and-thats-good-\"><span class=\"Hyperlink\">https:\/\/www.pri.org\/stories\/\r\n2014-09-14\/singles-now-outnumber-married-people-america-and-thats-good-thing<\/span><\/a>for background and links to detailed information<em>.<\/em>[\/footnote]<\/span> Those numbers may sound familiar as part of politicians\u2019 \u201cfocus on the family,\u201d decrying the number of children born to unmarried parents and bemoaning the weakening of an institution they hold dear (even though their colleagues are frequently exposed in the news for sexual indiscretions).<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Text-Box-para\">It is true that adults with limited resources face challenges raising children when they have limited access to affordable, high-quality child care. They struggle when living wage jobs migrate to other countries or other states where workers earn less. In an economic system that encourages concentration of resources in a tiny fraction of the population, it is no wonder that they struggle. But is the institution of marriage really to blame? The number of cohabitating unmarried individuals is high in many parts of Europe as well, but with better support structures in place, parents fare much better. They enjoy parental leave policies that mandate their jobs be held for them upon return from leave. They also benefit from strong educational systems and state-subsidized child care, and their children enjoy better outcomes than ours.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Text-Box-para\">Critics see the \u201cfocus on the family\u201d by U.S. politicians as a convenient political trick that turns attention away from crucial policy issues and refocuses it on the plight of the institution of marriage and the fate of the nation\u2019s children. Few people can easily dismiss these concerns, even if they do not reflect their own lived realities. And besides, the family model trumpeted by politicians as lost is but one form of family that is not universal even in the United States, much less among all human groups, as sociologist Stephanie Coontz convincingly argued in books including <em><span class=\"CharOverride-10\">The Way We Never Were<\/span><\/em>(1992) and <em><span class=\"CharOverride-10\">The Way We Really Are <\/span><\/em>(1997). In fact, the \u201cfocus on family\u201d ignores the diverse ways peoples on this continent have organized their relationships. For Hopi, a Native American group living in what is today the southwestern United States, for example, it is their mother\u2019s kin rather than their husbands\u2019 from whom they draw support. The Navajo, Kiowa, and Iroquois Native American cultures all organize their family units and arrange their relationships differently.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n[caption id=\"attachment_295\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"300\"]<img class=\"size-medium wp-image-295\" src=\"https:\/\/s3-us-west-2.amazonaws.com\/courses-images\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2795\/2017\/12\/06163941\/gender_figure_18-e1512756444525-300x243.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"243\" \/> <em><strong>Figure 18:\u00a0<\/strong><\/em>Na grandmother with her maternal<br \/>grandchildren. They live in the same household,<br \/>along with the grandmother\u2019s adult sons and her<br \/>daughter, the children\u2019s mother. Photograph by Tami Blumenfield, 2002.[\/caption]\r\n<p class=\"Text-Box-para\">Na people living in the foothills of the Himalayas have many ways to structure family relationships. One relationship structure looks like what we might expect in a place where people make their living from the land and raise livestock to sustain themselves. Young adults marry, and brides sometimes moves into the husband\u2019s childhood home and live with his parents. They have children, who live with them, and they work together. A second Na family structure looks much less familiar: young adults live in large, extended family households with several generations and form romantic relationships with someone from another household. When they are ready, the young man seeks permission to spend the night in the young woman\u2019s room. If both parties desire, their relationship can evolve into a long-term one, but they do not marry and do not live together in the same household. When a child is conceived, or before if the couple chooses, their relationship moves from a secretive one to one about which others know. Even so, the young man rarely spends daylight hours with his partner. Instead, he returns to his own family\u2019s home to help with farming and other work there. The state is not involved in their relationship, and their money is not pooled either, though presents change hands. If either partner becomes disenchanted with the other, the relationship need not persist. Their children remain in the mother\u2019s home, nurtured by adults who love them deeply\u2014not just by their mothers but also by their grandmothers, maternal aunts, maternal uncles, and often older cousins as well. They enjoy everyday life with an extended family (Figure 18). The third Na family structure mixes the preceding two systems. Someone joins a larger household as a spouse. Perhaps the family lacked enough women or men to manage the household and farming tasks adequately or the couple faced pressure from the government to marry.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Text-Box-para\">As an anthropologist who has done fieldwork in Na communities since 2001, I can attest to the loving and nurturing families their system encourages. It protects adults as well as children. Women who are suffering in a relationship can end it with limited consequences for their children, who do not need to relocate to a new house and adjust to a new lifestyle. Lawyers need not get involved, as they often must in divorce cases elsewhere in the world. A man who cannot afford to build a new house for his family\u2014a significant pressure for people in many areas of China that prevents young men from marrying or delays their marriages\u2014can still enjoy a relationship or can choose, instead, to devote himself to his role as an uncle. Women and men who do not feel the urge to pursue romantic lives are protected in this system as well; they can contribute to their natal families without having to worry that no one will look out for them as they age.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Text-Box-para\">Like any system composed of real people, Na systems are not perfect, and neither are the people who represent them. In the last few decades, people have flocked to Lugu Lake hoping to catch a glimpse of this unusual society, and many tourists and tour guides have mistakenly taken Na flexibility in relationships as signifying a land of casual sex with no recognition of paternity. These are highly problematic assumptions that offend my Na acquaintances deeply. Na people have fathers and know who they are, and they often enjoy close relationships despite living apart. In fact, fathers are deeply involved in children\u2019s lives and often participate in everyday child-rearing activities. Of course, as in other parts of the world, some fathers participate more than others. Fathers and their birth families also take responsibility for contributing to school expenses and make other financial contributions as circumstances permit. Clearly, this is not a community in which men do not fulfill responsibilities as fathers. It is one in which the responsibilities and how they are fulfilled varies markedly from those of fathers living in other places and cultures.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Text-Box-para\">Though problems exist in Na communities and their relationship patterns are already changing and transforming them, it is encouraging that so many people can live satisfied lives in this flexible system. The Na shatter our expectations about how families and relationships should be organized. They also inspire us to ask whether we can, and should, adapt part of their ethos into our own society.<span class=\"Endnote-reference CharOverride-9\">[footnote]Material in this text box was adapted from \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=KFUnKQ0HTGs\"><span class=\"Hyperlink\">What Can We Learn from the Na? Shattering Ideas about Family and Relationships<\/span><\/a>,\u201d a TEDx FurmanU presentation by Tami Blumenfield. See also Tami Blumenfield, \u201cChinese Tour Groups in Europe, Chinese Tour Groups in Yunnan: Narrating a Nation in the World\u201d\u00a0<span class=\"CharOverride-5\"><em>The China Beat<\/em><\/span>June 2, 2011.\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.thechinabeat.org\/?p=3494\"><span class=\"Hyperlink\">http:\/\/www.thechinabeat.org\/?p=3494<\/span><\/a>; Siobhan M. Mattison, Brooke Scelza, and Tami Blumenfield, \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.academia.edu\/8442982\/Paternal_Investment_and_the_Positive_Effects_of_Fathers_among_the_Matrilineal_Mosuo_of_Southwest_China\"><span class=\"Hyperlink\">Paternal Investment and the Positive Effects of Fathers among the Matrilineal Mosuo (Na) of Southwest China<\/span><\/a>\u201d<em><span class=\"CharOverride-5\">American Anthropologist<\/span><\/em>116 no. 3 (2014): 591\u2013610; Tami Blumenfield, \u201cResilience in Mountainous Southwest China: Adopting a Socio-Ecological Approach to Community Change,\u201d in\u00a0<span class=\"CharOverride-5\"><em>Worlds in the Making: Interethnicity and the Processes of Generating Meaning in Southwestern China, Cahiers d\u2019Extr\u00eame Asie<\/em><\/span>23 (2014)[\/footnote]<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Text-Box-para-last ParaOverride-9\">For more information, see the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=KFUnKQ0HTGs\"><span class=\"Hyperlink\">TEDx FurmanU presentation<\/span><\/a> by Tami Blumenfield.<\/p>\r\nhttps:\/\/youtu.be\/KFUnKQ0HTGs\r\n\r\n<\/div>\r\n<h2 class=\"H1\">FAMILIES AND CULTURE CHANGE\u00a0<em>by\u00a0Mary Kay Gilliland<\/em><\/h2>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">Families are adaptive groups that help address common societal concerns related to child-rearing, sexual relationships between adults, and gender roles within the household. While there are norms and ideals, expectations and understandings regarding families in all cultures, there are also always situations that represent variations on that norm. Sometimes these are areas where we begin to see culture change. In the United States in the 1960s, young people began to live together openly outside of marriage as couples. Those relationships were often socially disapproved, but today it is much more socially acceptable and common for people to live together prior to marriage or even instead of marriage. Often the couple will also have children before they decide to marry. An ideological variation that began nearly sixty years ago has led to a widespread culture change in attitudes toward marriage.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">In the Croatian Republic of Yugoslavia in the 1980s, shortly after the death of long-time leader Josip Broz \u201cTito,\u201d it was still expected that a young couple would live with a husband\u2019s family at marriage. At that time, I was engaged in fieldwork that focused on social change. The socialist government had implemented legislation and social programs to support women moving out of traditional roles, becoming educated and productive members of the workforce, and participating in the professional class. There was state-funded daycare and liberal legislation regarding birth control and abortion among other efforts to improve or change the traditional roles of women.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">In reality, however, marriage and parenthood were still highly valued. Couples often married at a young age and women tended to still be responsible for all housework. Women themselves valued keeping a clean house, cooking homemade food from scratch without using prepared foods, and caring for their families. Most young wives and mothers lived with their husbands\u2019 families. Traditionally, mothers of sons gained power and respect in the family from their married son and daughter-in-law. In the past this relationship was sometimes described as a difficult one, with a daughter-in-law having little say in family and household life. Some of that seemed to persist in the 1980s. Women living with mothers-in-law did not have a great deal of freedom of choice and had to prove themselves at home, leaving less time to think about progressing in education or work.[footnote]Olsen, M. K. G., \u201cAuthority and Conflict in Slavonian Households: The Effects of Social Environment on Intra-Household Processes\u201d in <em>The Household Economy: Reconsidering the Domestic Mode of Production<\/em>, Richard Wilk, ed., 149-170 (Colorado: Westview Press, 1989).[\/footnote]<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">In an urban environment, however, housing was in short supply. If a family had two sons and one was already married and still living with his natal family, the second son might live with the wife\u2019s family at marriage if that family had the space. In these situations, which were not considered ideal but still were in the range of acceptable alternatives, young married women found themselves living with their own mothers rather than a mother-in-law. A mother tended to make life easier for her own daughter rather than insisting that she do quite so much household work. Mothers and daughters were more often easy partners in a household. The mother-in-law of a young man tended not to make his life difficult, but rather to regard him fondly. Women who lived with their own families after marriage were more likely to be able to continue their education, take promotions at work, make more of the opportunities that were provided under socialism.<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">In Croatia, government engineered policies alone did not produce changes in family patterns or gender roles. It was a variety of factors, including economic pressures and housing shortages, which combined to create an environment in which families changed. It became increasingly common for couples to live with the wife\u2019s family and eventually to live on their own. Today in Croatia, women have a great deal of freedom of choice, are likely to live alone with their husbands or, like in the United States, Canada, and European countries, to live with a partner outside of marriage. Change occurs in family life when social and cultural conditions also change.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"H1\">CONCLUSION\u00a0<em>by\u00a0Mary Kay Gilliland<\/em><\/h2>\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">The institutions of the family and marriage are found in all societies and are part of cultural understandings of the way the world should work. In all cultures there are variations that are acceptable as well as situations in which people cannot quite meet the ideal. How people construct families varies greatly from one society to another, but there are patterns across cultures that are linked to economics, religion, and other cultural and environmental factors. The study of families and marriage is an important part of anthropology because family and household groups play a central role in defining relationships between people and making society function. While there is nothing in biology that dictates that a family group be organized in a particular way, our cultural expectations leads to ideas about families that seem \u201cnatural\u201d to us. As cultures change over time, ideas about family also adapt to new circumstances.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<div class=\"textbox exercises\">\r\n<h3>DISCUSSION QUESTIONS<\/h3>\r\n<ol>\r\n \t<li class=\"Discussion-Questions-numbered\">\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">Why is it important for anthropologists to understand the kinship, descent, and family relationships that exist in the cultures they study? In what ways can family relationships structure the lives of individuals?<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n \t<li class=\"Discussion-Questions-numbered\">\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">Status and role define the position of people within the family as well as the behaviors they are expected to perform. What are some of the statuses and roles found in families in your community? How have these changed over time?<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n \t<li class=\"Discussion-Questions-numbered\">\r\n<p class=\"Normal\">In this chapter, Gilliland describes several different patterns of family organization including nuclear families, extended families, and joint families. While small nuclear families are common in the United States, larger families are common in many other societies. What do you think are some of the practical effects of both small and large families on everyday life?<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n<\/div>\r\n<\/div>","rendered":"<div id=\"_idContainer269\" class=\"Basic-Text-Frame\">\n<div class=\"textbox learning-objectives\">\n<h3>Learning Objectives<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li class=\"Learning-Objectives\">Describe the variety of human families cross-culturally with examples.<\/li>\n<li class=\"Learning-Objectives\">Discuss variation in parental rights and responsibilities.<\/li>\n<li class=\"Learning-Objectives\">Distinguish between matrilineal, patrilineal, and bilateral kinship systems.<\/li>\n<li class=\"Learning-Objectives\">Identify the differences between kinship establish by blood and kinship established by marriage.<\/li>\n<li class=\"Learning-Objectives\">Evaluate the differences between dowry and bridewealth as well as between different types of post-marital residence.<\/li>\n<li class=\"Learning-Objectives\">Recognize patterns of family and marriage and explain why these patterns represent rational decisions within the cultural contexts.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"_idContainer303\" class=\"_idGenObjectStyleOverride-1\">\n<h2 class=\"H1\">INTRODUCTION <em>by\u00a0Mary Kay Gilliland<\/em><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal\">Family and marriage may at first seem to be familiar topics. Families exist in all societies and they are part of what makes us human. However, societies around the world demonstrate tremendous variation in cultural understandings of family and marriage. Ideas about how people are related to each other, what kind of marriage would be ideal, when people should have children, who should care for children, and many other family related matters differ cross-culturally. While the function of families is to fulfill basic human needs such as providing for children, defining parental roles, regulating sexuality, and passing property and knowledge between generations, there are many variations or patterns of family life that can meet these needs. This chapter introduces some of the more common patterns of family life found around the world. It is important to remember that within any cultural framework variation does occur. Some variations on the standard pattern fall within what would be culturally considered the \u201crange of acceptable alternatives.\u201d Other family forms are not entirely accepted, but would still be recognized by most members of the community as reasonable.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"H1\">KINSHIP AND DESCENT\u00a0<em>by\u00a0Mary Kay Gilliland<\/em><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><strong><b>Kinship<\/b><\/strong> is the word used to describe culturally recognized ties between members of a family. Kinship includes the terms, or social statuses, used to define family members and the roles or expected behaviors family associated with these statuses. Kinship encompasses relationships formed through blood connections (<b>consanguineal<\/b>), such as those created between parents and children, as well as relationships created through marriage ties (<b>affinal<\/b>), such as in-laws (see Figure 1). Kinship can also include \u201cchosen kin,\u201d who have no formal blood or marriage ties, but consider themselves to be family. Adoptive parents, for instance, are culturally recognized as parents to the children they raise even though they are not related by blood.<\/p>\n<div class=\"_idGenObjectLayout-1\">\n<div id=\"_idContainer278\">\n<div id=\"_idContainer271\">\n<div style=\"width: 510px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"_idGenObjectAttribute-1\" src=\"https:\/\/s3-us-west-2.amazonaws.com\/courses-images\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2795\/2017\/12\/06163619\/family_figure_1.png\" alt=\"Young Maasai women, affinal kin, share domestic responsibilities.\" width=\"500\" height=\"330\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Figure 1: These young Maasai women from Western Tanzania are affinal kin, who share responsibilities for childcare. Maasai men often have multiple wives who share domestic responsibilities. Photo used with permission of Laura Tubelle de Gonz\u00e1lez.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"Normal\">While there is quite a bit of variation in families cross-culturally, it is also true that many families can be categorized into broad types based on what anthropologists call a <strong>kinship system<\/strong>. The <b>kinship system<\/b> refers to the pattern of culturally recognized relationships between family members. Some cultures create kinship through only a single parental line or \u201cside\u201d of the family. For instance, families in many parts of the world are defined by <b><strong>patrilineal descent<\/strong>:<\/b> the paternal line of the family, or fathers and their children. In other societies, <strong><b>matrilineal descent<\/b><\/strong> defines membership in the kinship group through the maternal line of relationships between mothers and their children. Both kinds of kinship are considered<strong> <b>unilineal<\/b><\/strong> because they involve descent through only one line or side of the family. It is important to keep in mind that systems of descent define culturally recognized \u201ckin,\u201d but these rules do not restrict relationships or emotional bonds between people. Mothers in patrilineal societies have close and loving relationships with their children even though they are not members of the same patrilineage.<a class=\"footnote\" title=\"In a patrilineal society, children are members of their father\u2019s patrilineage. A mother belongs to her own father\u2019s patrilineage, while the children belong to their father\u2019s patrilinage.\" id=\"return-footnote-196-1\" href=\"#footnote-196-1\" aria-label=\"Footnote 1\"><sup class=\"footnote\">[1]<\/sup><\/a> In the United States, for instance, last names traditionally follow a pattern of patrilineal descent: children receive last names from their fathers. This does not mean that the bonds between mothers and children are reduced. <strong><b>Bilateral descent<\/b><\/strong> is another way of creating kinship. Bilateral descent means that families are defined by descent from both the father and the mother\u2019s sides of the family. In bilateral descent, which is common in the United States, children recognize both their mother\u2019s and father\u2019s family members as relatives.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><span style=\"font-size: 1rem;text-align: initial\">Matrilineages and patrilineages are not just mirror images of each other. They create groups that behave somewhat differently. Contrary to some popular ideas, matrilineages are not <\/span><strong style=\"font-size: 1rem;text-align: initial\"><b>matriarchal<\/b><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 1rem;text-align: initial\">. The terms \u201cmatriarchy\u201d and \u201cpatriarchy\u201d refer to the power structure in a society. In a patriarchal society, men have more authority and the ability to make more decisions than do women. A father may have the right to make certain decisions for his wife or wives, and for his children, or any other dependents. In matrilineal societies, men usually still have greater power, but women may be subject more to the power of their brothers or uncles (relatives through their mother\u2019s side of the family) rather than their fathers.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">Among the matrilineal Hopi, for example, a mothers\u2019 brother is more likely to be a figure of authority than a father. The mother\u2019s brothers have important roles in the lives of their sisters\u2019 children. These roles include ceremonial obligations and the responsibility to teach the skills that are associated with men and men\u2019s activities. Men are the keepers of important ritual knowledge so while women are respected, men are still likely to hold more authority.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">The Nayar of southern India offer an interesting example of gender roles in a matrilineal society. In the seventeenth and eighteenth centuries, men and women did not live together after marriage because the husbands, who were not part of the matrilineage, were not considered relatives. Women lived for their entire lives in extended family homes with their mothers and siblings. The male siblings in the household had the social role of father and were important father figures in the lives of their sisters\u2019 children. The biological fathers of the children had only a limited role in their lives. Instead, these men were busy raising their own sisters\u2019 children. Despite the matrilineal focus of the household, Nayar communities were not matriarchies. The position of power in the household was held by an elder male, often the oldest male sibling.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">The consequences of this kind of system are intriguing. Men did not have strong ties to their biological offspring. Marriages were fluid and men and women could have more than one spouse, but the children always remained with their mothers.<a class=\"footnote\" title=\"Kathleen Gough, \u201cVariation in Matrilineal Systems,\u201d in D. Schneider and K. Gough, eds., Matrilineal Kinship, Part 2 (Berkeley: University of California Press, 1961). See also Kathleen Gough, The Traditional Kinship System of the Nayars of Malabar (Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 1954).\" id=\"return-footnote-196-2\" href=\"#footnote-196-2\" aria-label=\"Footnote 2\"><sup class=\"footnote\">[2]<\/sup><\/a> Cross-culturally it does seem to be the case that in matrilineal societies women tend to have more freedom to make decisions about sex and marriage. Children are members of their mother\u2019s kinship group, whether the mother is married or not, so there is often less concern about the social legitimacy of children or fatherhood.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">Some anthropologists have suggested that marriages are less stable in matrilineal societies than in patrilineal ones, but this varies as well. Among the matrilineal Iroquois, for example, women owned the longhouses. Men moved into their wives\u2019 family houses at marriage. If a woman wanted to divorce her husband, she could simply put his belongings outside. In that society, however, men and women also spent significant time apart. Men were hunters and warriors, often away from the home. Women were the farmers and tended to the home. This, as much as matrilineality, could have contributed to less formality or disapproval of divorce. There was no concern about the division of property. The longhouse belonged to the mother\u2019s family, and children belonged to their mother\u2019s clan. Men would always have a home with their sisters and mother, in their own matrilineal longhouse.<a class=\"footnote\" title=\"See for example Merlin Myers, Households and Families of the Longhouse Iroquois at Six Nations Reserve (Lincoln, NE: University of Nebraska Press, 2006).\" id=\"return-footnote-196-3\" href=\"#footnote-196-3\" aria-label=\"Footnote 3\"><sup class=\"footnote\">[3]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"H1\">MARRIAGE AND FAMILY\u00a0<em>by\u00a0Mary Kay Gilliland<\/em><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal\">In a basic biological sense, women give birth and the minimal family unit in most, though not all societies, is mother and child. Cultures elaborate that basic relationship and build on it to create units that are culturally considered central to social life. Families grow through the birth or adoption of children and through new adult relationships often recognized as marriage. In our own society, it is only culturally acceptable to be married to one spouse at a time though we may practice what is sometimes called <strong><b>serial monogamy<\/b><\/strong>, or, marriage to a succession of spouses one after the other. This is reinforced by religious systems, and more importantly in U.S. society, by law. Plural marriages are not allowed; they are illegal although they do exist because they are encouraged under some religions or ideologies. In the United States, couples are legally allowed to divorce and remarry, but not all religions cultural groups support this practice.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">When anthropologists talk of family structures, we distinguish among several standard family types any of which can be the typical or preferred family unit in a culture. First is the <strong><b>nuclear family<\/b><\/strong>: parents who are in a culturally-recognized relationship, such as marriage, along with their minor or dependent children. This family type is also known as a <b>conjugal family<\/b>. A <b>non-conjugal<\/b> nuclear family might be a single parent with dependent children, because of the death of one spouse or divorce or because a marriage never occurred. Next is the <strong><b>extended family<\/b><\/strong>: a family of at least three-generations sharing a household. A <strong><b>stem family<\/b><\/strong> is a version of an extended family that includes an older couple and one of their adult children with a spouse (or spouses) and children. In situations where one child in a family is designated to inherit, it is more likely that only the inheriting child will remain with the parents when he or she becomes an adult and marries. While this is often an oldest male, it is sometimes a different child. In Burma or Myanmar for example, the youngest daughter was considered the ideal caretaker of elderly parents, and was generally designated to inherit.<a class=\"footnote\" title=\"Melford Spiro, Kinship and Marriage in Burma: A Cultural and Psychodynamic Analysis (Berkeley, CA: University of California Press, 1977).\" id=\"return-footnote-196-4\" href=\"#footnote-196-4\" aria-label=\"Footnote 4\"><sup class=\"footnote\">[4]<\/sup><\/a>\u00a0The other children will \u201cmarry out\u201d or find other means to support themselves.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">A <strong><b>joint family<\/b><\/strong> is a very large extended family that includes multiple generations. Adult children of one gender, often the males, remain in the household with their spouses and children and they have collective rights to family property. Unmarried adult children of both genders may also remain in the family group. For example, a household could include a set of grandparents, all of their adult sons with their wives and children, and unmarried adult daughters. A joint family in rare cases could have dozens of people, such as the traditional<em> <em>zadruga<\/em><\/em> of Croatia, discussed in greater detail below.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><strong><b>Polygamous families<\/b><\/strong> are based on plural marriages in which there are multiple wives or, in rarer cases, multiple husbands. These families may live in nuclear or extended family households and they may or may not be close to each other spatially (see discussion of households below). The terms step family or blended family are used to describe families that develop when adults who have been widowed or divorced marry again and bring children from previous partnerships together. These families are common in many countries with high divorce rates. A wonderful fictional example was <em>The Brady Bunch<\/em> of 1970s television.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"H2\">Who Can You Marry?<\/h3>\n<p class=\"Normal\">Cultural expectations define appropriate potential marriage partners. Cultural rules emphasizing the need to marry within a cultural group are known as <strong><b>endogamy<\/b><\/strong>. People are sometimes expected to marry within religious communities, to marry someone who is ethnically or racially similar or who comes from a similar economic or educational background. These are endogamous marriages: marriages within a group. Cultural expectations for marriage outside a particular group are called <strong><b>exogamy<\/b><\/strong>. Many cultures require that individuals marry only outside their own kinship groups, for instance. In the United States laws prevent marriage between close relatives such as first cousins. There was a time in the not so distant past, however, when it was culturally preferred for Europeans, and Euro-Americans to marry first cousins. Royalty and aristocrats were known to betroth their children to relatives, often cousins. Charles Darwin, who was British, married his first cousin Emma. This was often done to keep property and wealth in the family.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">In some societies, however, a cousin might be a preferred marriage partner. In some Middle Eastern societies, <strong><b>patrilateral cousin marriage<\/b><\/strong>\u2014marrying a male or female cousin on your father\u2019s side\u2014is preferred. Some cultures prohibit marriage with a cousin who is in your lineage but, prefer that you marry a cousin who is not in your lineage. For example, if you live in a society that traces kinship patrilineally, cousins from your father\u2019s brothers or sisters would be forbidden as marriage partners, but cousins from your mother\u2019s brothers or sisters might be considered excellent marriage partners.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><b>Arranged marriages<\/b> were typical in many cultures around the world in the past including in the United States. Marriages are arranged by families for many reasons: because the families have something in common, for financial reasons, to match people with others from the \u201ccorrect\u201d social, economic or religious group, and for many other reasons. In India today, some people practice a kind of modified arranged marriage practice that allows the potential spouses to meet and spend time together before agreeing to a match. The meeting may take place through a mutual friend, a family member, community matchmaker, or even a Marriage Meet even in which members of the same community (caste) are invited to gather (see Figure 5). Although arranged marriages still exist in urban cities such as Mumbai, love matches are increasingly common. In general, as long as the social requirements are met, love matches may be accepted by the families involved.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_187\" style=\"width: 410px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-187\" class=\"wp-image-187\" src=\"https:\/\/s3-us-west-2.amazonaws.com\/courses-images\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2795\/2017\/12\/06163652\/family_figure_5-e1512755594868-878x1024.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"466\" \/><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-187\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Figure 5: This advertisement for \u201cMarriage Meet\u201d in Mumbai, India welcomes \u201cboys\u201d and \u201cgirls\u201d from the community to participate in a Marriage Meet, in which young people can mingle with and get to know potential spouses in a fun atmosphere. Photo used with permission of Laura Tubelle de Gonz\u00e1lez.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"Normal\">Polygamy refers to any marriage in which there are multiple partners. There are two kinds of polygamy: polygyny and polyandry. <strong><b>Polygyny<\/b><\/strong> refers to marriages in which there is one husband and multiple wives. In some societies that practice polygyny, the preference is for <strong><b>sororal polygyny<\/b><\/strong>, or the marriage of one man to several sisters. In such cases, it is sometimes believed that sisters will get along better as co-wives.<strong><b> Polyandry<\/b> <\/strong>describes marriages with one wife and multiple husbands. As with polygyny, <strong><b>fraternal polyandry <\/b><\/strong>is common and involves the marriage of a woman to a group of brothers.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">In some cultures, if a man\u2019s wife dies, especially if he has no children, or has young children, it is thought to be best for him to marry one of his deceased wife\u2019s sisters. A sister, it is believed, is a reasonable substitution for the lost wife and likely a more loving mother to any children left behind. This practice might also prevent the need to return property exchanged at marriage, such as <strong><b>dowry<\/b><\/strong> (payments made to the groom\u2019s family before marriage), or <b><strong>bridewealth<\/strong> <\/b>(payments made to the bride\u2019s family before marriage). The practice of a man marrying the sister of his deceased wife is called <strong><b>sororate<\/b> <\/strong>marriage. In the case of a husband\u2019s death, some societies prefer that a woman marry one of her husband\u2019s brothers, and in some cases this might be preferred even if he already has a wife. This practice is called <strong><b>levirate<\/b><\/strong> marriage. This latter practice is described in the Old Testament.<a class=\"footnote\" title=\"Laura Tubelle de Gonz\u00e1lez, \u201cModern Arranged Marriage in Mumbai\u201d Teaching Anthropology: SACC Notes 19 (2015). http:\/\/sacc-dev.americananthro.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/TASN-191-192-spring-fall-20131.pdf.\u00a0\" id=\"return-footnote-196-5\" href=\"#footnote-196-5\" aria-label=\"Footnote 5\"><sup class=\"footnote\">[5]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"H2\">Family Size<\/h3>\n<p class=\"Normal\">Cultural rules generally define not only who makes up a family but also how many people should be in it. In some cultures, larger families are considered ideal. In others, smaller families are preferred. These ideas are often linked to both practical and ideological considerations. Practical considerations might include the availability of housing, work patterns, childcare, the economic contribution children make to a family, or the cost of raising children. Ideological considerations include religious values related to families. In the 1990s, I carried out field research in Croatia, investigating ideas about families. An overwhelming majority of the people I interviewed believed that the ideal family would include three children. Most of these families commented that in their own living memories people preferred as many children as possible so that there would be assistance for farm work. When I was there, however, large families were no longer regarded as practical. Within the same general region, families in urban settings overwhelmingly said that one child was ideal. A shortage of housing was the single most important factor for limiting family size to one child in cities. In both the rural and urban settings in Croatia, most people were Roman Catholic and may have been ideologically predisposed to larger families, but practical considerations were more important to both groups when it came to matters of family size.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">During the same period in the 1990s, it was common for families in the United States to say that the ideal family included two children and preferably one of each gender (anecdotal). This of course varies based on factors which include, but are not limited to the ethnicity and religion of the family. In another example, the People\u2019s Republic of China, where I lived and worked, had an official one-child policy.<a class=\"footnote\" title=\"The one-child policy was introduced in 1979. It was phased out beginning in 2015 and was replaced by a two-child policy.\" id=\"return-footnote-196-6\" href=\"#footnote-196-6\" aria-label=\"Footnote 6\"><sup class=\"footnote\">[6]<\/sup><\/a>\u00a0A family that included only one child was not a widespread cultural ideal. Most families wished for more children, but had to settle for less.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"H2\">Creating Families: Patterns of Marriage\u00a0<em>by\u00a0Mary Kay Gilliland<\/em><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal\">As described above, families can be created in many different ways. A marriage is a cultural, social, and legal process that brings two or more individuals together to create a new family unit. Most cultures have ideas about how marriages should be arranged ( whether by families or by the individuals involved), at what age this should occur, what the married partners should have in common (including economic status, religion, ethnicity and so on), and what cultural, religious and legal processes make a marriage valid. In the United States, strong cultural norms suggest that individuals should marry for love and not for other reasons. It is not unusual, however, for communities to teach children to follow certain group norms in choosing a marriage partner. Some religious communities, for example, will not recognize marriages contracted across religious lines. Some families strongly prefer that their children marry individuals with similar economic, cultural, or ethnic backgrounds. Because families tend to socialize with other families similar to themselves, young people are more likely to meet others similar to themselves.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"H2\">Marriage Exchanges: Dowry and Bridewealth<\/h3>\n<p class=\"Normal\">In many societies, marriages are affirmed with an exchange of property. This is usually the case in places where families have a hand in arranging a marriage. A property exchange recognizes the challenges faced by a family that loses a member and by a family that takes on a new member. These practices also reflect different notions about the value of the new family member.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">Dowry payments are known from U.S. and Western European history. A <strong><b>dowry <\/b><\/strong>is a gift given by a bride\u2019s family to either the bride or to the groom\u2019s family at the time of the marriage. In societies that practice dowry, families often spend many years accumulating the gift. In some villages in the former Yugoslavia, the dowry was meant to provide for a woman if she became a widow. The dowry was her share of her family\u2019s property and reflected the tradition that land was usually inherited by a woman\u2019s brothers. The dowry might include coins, often woven together in a kind of apron and worn on her wedding day. This form of dowry also represented a statement of wealth, prestige or high status for both families; her family\u2019s ability to give this kind of wealth, and the prestige of the family who was acquiring a desirable new bride. Her dowry also could include linens and other useful items to be used during her years as a wife. In more recent times, dowries have become extravagant, including things like refrigerators, cars, and houses.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">A dowry can also represent the higher status of the groom\u2019s family and its ability to demand a payment for taking on the economic responsibility of a young wife. This was of thinking about dowry is more typical of societies in which women are less valued than men. A good dowry enables a woman\u2019s family to marry into a better family. In parts of India, a dowry could sometimes be so large that it would be paid in installments. Bride burnings, killing a bride, could happen if her family did not continue to make the agreed upon payments (though there may be other reasons for this awful crime in individual cases). This of course is illegal, but does sometimes occur.<a class=\"footnote\" title=\"There are many news reports about this practice. See for instance Subodh Varnal, \u201cDowry Death: One Bride Burnt Every Hour,\u201d The Times of India, January 27, 2012 http:\/\/timesofindia.indiatimes.com\/india\/Dowry-death-One-bride-burnt-every-hour\/articleshow\/11644691.cms\" id=\"return-footnote-196-7\" href=\"#footnote-196-7\" aria-label=\"Footnote 7\"><sup class=\"footnote\">[7]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">Historically, dowry was most common in agricultural societies. Land was the most valuable commodity and usually land stayed in the hands of men. Women who did not marry were sometimes seen as a burden on their own families because they were not perceived as making an economic contribution and they represented another mouth to feed. A dowry was important for a woman to take with her into a marriage because the groom\u2019s family had the upper economic hand. It helped ease the tension of her arrival in the household, especially if the dowry was substantial.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><strong><b>Bridewealth<\/b><\/strong>, by contrast, often represents a higher value placed on women and their ability to work and produce children. Bridewealth is an exchange of valuables given from a man\u2019s family to the family of his new wife. Bridewealth is common in pastoralist societies in which people make their living by raising domesticated animals. The Masaai are example of one such group. A cattle-herding culture located in Kenya and Tanzania, the Maasai pay bridewealth based on the desirability of the woman. Culturally defined attributes such as her age, beauty, virginity, and her ability to work contribute to a woman\u2019s value. The economic value placed on women does not mean that women in such societies necessarily have much freedom, but it does sometimes give them some leverage in their new domestic situations. In rare cases, there might be simultaneous exchanges of dowry and bridewealth. In such cases, often the bridewealth gift was more of a token than a substantial economic contribution.<\/p>\n<h3>Same-Sex Marriage<\/h3>\n<p>The first state to extend marriage rights was Massachusetts in 2003. By 2014, more than half of U.S. Americans said they believed same-sex couples should have the right to marry, and on June 26, 2015, in <em>Obergefell v. Hodges<\/em>, the U.S. supreme court declared that same-sex couples had the legal right to marry.<a class=\"footnote\" title=\"Justin McCarthy, \u201cSame-Sex Marriage Support Reaches New High at 55%.\u201d Gallup. http:\/\/www.gallup.com\/ poll\/169640\/sex-marriage-support-reaches-new-high.aspx.\" id=\"return-footnote-196-8\" href=\"#footnote-196-8\" aria-label=\"Footnote 8\"><sup class=\"footnote\">[8]<\/sup><\/a> Few civil rights movements have seen such progress in such a short period of time. While many factors have influenced the shift in attitudes, sociologists and anthropologists have identified increased awareness of and exposure to LGBTQQIA+ people through the media and personal interactions as playing key roles.<a class=\"footnote\" title=\"Ellen Lewin and William Leap, Out in Theory: The Emergence of Lesbian and Gay Anthropology (Urbana: University of Illinois Press, 2002); William Leap and Ellen Lewin, Out in the Field: Reflections of Lesbian and Gay Anthropologist (Urbana: University of Illinois Press, 1996).\" id=\"return-footnote-196-9\" href=\"#footnote-196-9\" aria-label=\"Footnote 9\"><sup class=\"footnote\">[9]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n<p>However, legalization of same-sex marriage has not been welcomed everywhere in the United States. Anthropologist Jessica Johnson\u2019s ethnographic work profiling a Seattle-based megachurch from 2006 through 2008 initially explored their efforts to oppose same-sex marriage. Later, she shifted her focus to the rhetoric of gender, masculinity, and cisgender sexuality used by the church and its pastor.<a class=\"footnote\" title=\"Jessica Johnson, \u201cThe Citizen-Soldier: Masculinity, War, and Sacrifice at an Emerging Church in Seattle, Washington.\u201d Political and Legal Anthropology Review 33 no. 2 (2010): 326\u2013351.\" id=\"return-footnote-196-10\" href=\"#footnote-196-10\" aria-label=\"Footnote 10\"><sup class=\"footnote\">[10]<\/sup><\/a> Official church communications dismissed homosexuality as aberrant and mobilized members to advocate against same-sex marriage. The church\u2019s efforts were not successful.<\/p>\n<p>Interestingly, activists and gender studies scholars express concern over incorporating marriage\u2014a heteronormative institution some consider oppressive\u2014into queer spaces not previously governed by state authority. These concerns may be overshadowed by a desire for normative lives and legal protections, but as sociologist Tamara Metz and others have argued, legally intertwining passion, romance, sexual intimacy, and economic rights and responsibilities is not necessarily a move in the right direction.<a class=\"footnote\" title=\"Tamara Metz, Untying the Knot: Marriage, the State, and the Case for Their Divorce (Princeton: Princeton University Press, 2010).\" id=\"return-footnote-196-11\" href=\"#footnote-196-11\" aria-label=\"Footnote 11\"><sup class=\"footnote\">[11]<\/sup><\/a> As Miriam Smith has written, \u201cWe must move beyond thinking of same-sex marriage and relationship recognition as struggles that pit allegedly normalized or assimilated same-sex couples against queer politics and sensibilities and, rather, recognize the increasingly complex gender politics of same-sex marriage and relationship recognition, a politics that implicates groups beyond the LGBT community.\u201d<a class=\"footnote\" title=\"Miriam Smith, \u201cGender Politics and the Same-Sex Marriage Debate in the United States,\u201d Social Politics 17 no. 1 (2010): 1\u201328. Quote is on p.1\" id=\"return-footnote-196-12\" href=\"#footnote-196-12\" aria-label=\"Footnote 12\"><sup class=\"footnote\">[12]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"H2\">Adoption<\/h3>\n<p class=\"Normal\">Adoption is another way that people form family ties. In the United States, usually it is infants or minor children who are adopted by a non-parental family member like a grandparent, an aunt or uncle, or an older sibling, or by a non-family member. This is usually done when a biological parent is unable or unwilling to raise a child. The decision to give up a child through adoption is a complicated one, and one that parents do not make easily.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">In other societies, adoption is viewed differently. In some Pacific Island societies, children who are adopted are considered fortunate because they have two sets of parents; children are not given for adoption because a parent is unwilling or unable to care for them, but rather to honor the adoptive parents. Martha Ward described a young woman in <span class=\"CharOverride-6\">Pohnpei, Micronesia,<\/span> who had a child for her grandmother, to keep her company in her older years. In another case she described a child who went to dinner at a relative\u2019s house and stayed for a number of years in a kind of adoptive situation. In such cases, children retain relationships with biological and adoptive family members, and may even move fluidly between them.<a class=\"footnote\" title=\"Martha Ward, Nest in the Wind: Adventures in Anthropology on a Tropical Island (Long Grove, IL: Waveland Press, 2005).\" id=\"return-footnote-196-13\" href=\"#footnote-196-13\" aria-label=\"Footnote 13\"><sup class=\"footnote\">[13]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">One of the more unusual forms of adoption is <b>adopted-daughter marriage<\/b>, or <em><span class=\"CharOverride-2\">sim pua<\/span><\/em> marriage. It is found in Taiwan and described by anthropologist Margery Wolf. Wolf worked in Taiwan in the mid-1900s. At that time, Taiwanese families strongly preferred sons over daughters. Sons stayed with their families in adulthood, produced the next generation, cared for parents in old age, and carried on the tradition of ancestor veneration so that one would not become a \u201cwandering ghost\u201d after death. Daughters were regarded as expensive. People believed that they raised daughters for someone else. Dowries and weddings for grown daughters were expensive. Families worried that they would not be able to find suitable husbands for their grown daughters, who would remain a burden on their natal families in their later years, not producers of children or contributors in any other way.<a class=\"footnote\" title=\"Margery Wolf, Women and the Family in Rural Taiwan (Palo Alto, CA: Stanford University Press, 1972).\" id=\"return-footnote-196-14\" href=\"#footnote-196-14\" aria-label=\"Footnote 14\"><sup class=\"footnote\">[14]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">As a result a custom developed of giving up daughters to other families as future daughters-in-law. Mothers would give up their own daughters as infants, only to take in very quickly an adopted daughter from someone else. Sometimes the future wife was adopted before the family had a son. It was said that an adopted daughter\/daughter-in-law would \u201clead in a son.\u201d Adopted daughters were reportedly not treated well. They had to do housework, help with childcare, and were not given any privileges such as education. They were often older than their eventual husbands, and had a lower status in the family than their adoptive brothers. There were reports of an adopted daughter being treated badly by adopted siblings, and then being expected to later marry one of them. Wolf reports a very low birth rate among couples who were raised as siblings. Pressure to engage in these kinds of adoptions usually came from a mother-in-law, or the husband\u2019s mother, or a grandmother of the infant girl who had decision-making power in the family because she was the mother of an adult son. Grandmothers saw this kind of arrangement as advantageous to the family, according to Wolf, because birth mothers were more likely to be unhappy about losing a baby daughter, and because caring for another child brought in a future daughter-in-law.<a class=\"footnote\" title=\"Ibid.\" id=\"return-footnote-196-15\" href=\"#footnote-196-15\" aria-label=\"Footnote 15\"><sup class=\"footnote\">[15]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"textbox shaded\">\n<h3 class=\"Text-Box-head\"><span class=\"Emphasis CharOverride-7\">ETHNOGRAPHIC CASE STUDY: What Can We Learn from the Na? Shattering Ideas about Family and Relationships<\/span><\/h3>\n<h4 class=\"Text-Box-author\"><span class=\"Emphasis CharOverride-8\">By Tami Blumenfield<\/span><\/h4>\n<p class=\"Text-Box-para\">We have certain expectations about the trajectories of relationships and family life in the United States\u2014young people meet, fall in love, purchase a diamond, and then marry. To some extent, this specific view of family is changing as same-sex relationships and no-longer-new reproductive technologies expand our views of what family can and cannot be. Still, quite often, we think about family in a rigid, heteronormative context, assuming that everyone wants the same thing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Text-Box-para\">What if we think about family in an entirely different way? In fact, many people already do. In 2014, 10 percent of American adults lived in cohabitating relationships. Meanwhile, 51 percent were married in state-endorsed relationships, and that percentage has been dropping fast.<span class=\"Endnote-reference CharOverride-9\"><a class=\"footnote\" title=\"Seehttps:\/\/contemporaryfamilies.org\/the-way-we-still-never-were-brief-report\/andhttps:\/\/www.pri.org\/stories\/\n2014-09-14\/singles-now-outnumber-married-people-america-and-thats-good-thingfor background and links to detailed information.\" id=\"return-footnote-196-16\" href=\"#footnote-196-16\" aria-label=\"Footnote 16\"><sup class=\"footnote\">[16]<\/sup><\/a><\/span> Those numbers may sound familiar as part of politicians\u2019 \u201cfocus on the family,\u201d decrying the number of children born to unmarried parents and bemoaning the weakening of an institution they hold dear (even though their colleagues are frequently exposed in the news for sexual indiscretions).<\/p>\n<p class=\"Text-Box-para\">It is true that adults with limited resources face challenges raising children when they have limited access to affordable, high-quality child care. They struggle when living wage jobs migrate to other countries or other states where workers earn less. In an economic system that encourages concentration of resources in a tiny fraction of the population, it is no wonder that they struggle. But is the institution of marriage really to blame? The number of cohabitating unmarried individuals is high in many parts of Europe as well, but with better support structures in place, parents fare much better. They enjoy parental leave policies that mandate their jobs be held for them upon return from leave. They also benefit from strong educational systems and state-subsidized child care, and their children enjoy better outcomes than ours.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Text-Box-para\">Critics see the \u201cfocus on the family\u201d by U.S. politicians as a convenient political trick that turns attention away from crucial policy issues and refocuses it on the plight of the institution of marriage and the fate of the nation\u2019s children. Few people can easily dismiss these concerns, even if they do not reflect their own lived realities. And besides, the family model trumpeted by politicians as lost is but one form of family that is not universal even in the United States, much less among all human groups, as sociologist Stephanie Coontz convincingly argued in books including <em><span class=\"CharOverride-10\">The Way We Never Were<\/span><\/em>(1992) and <em><span class=\"CharOverride-10\">The Way We Really Are <\/span><\/em>(1997). In fact, the \u201cfocus on family\u201d ignores the diverse ways peoples on this continent have organized their relationships. For Hopi, a Native American group living in what is today the southwestern United States, for example, it is their mother\u2019s kin rather than their husbands\u2019 from whom they draw support. The Navajo, Kiowa, and Iroquois Native American cultures all organize their family units and arrange their relationships differently.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_295\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-295\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-295\" src=\"https:\/\/s3-us-west-2.amazonaws.com\/courses-images\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2795\/2017\/12\/06163941\/gender_figure_18-e1512756444525-300x243.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"243\" \/><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-295\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><em><strong>Figure 18:\u00a0<\/strong><\/em>Na grandmother with her maternal<br \/>grandchildren. They live in the same household,<br \/>along with the grandmother\u2019s adult sons and her<br \/>daughter, the children\u2019s mother. Photograph by Tami Blumenfield, 2002.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"Text-Box-para\">Na people living in the foothills of the Himalayas have many ways to structure family relationships. One relationship structure looks like what we might expect in a place where people make their living from the land and raise livestock to sustain themselves. Young adults marry, and brides sometimes moves into the husband\u2019s childhood home and live with his parents. They have children, who live with them, and they work together. A second Na family structure looks much less familiar: young adults live in large, extended family households with several generations and form romantic relationships with someone from another household. When they are ready, the young man seeks permission to spend the night in the young woman\u2019s room. If both parties desire, their relationship can evolve into a long-term one, but they do not marry and do not live together in the same household. When a child is conceived, or before if the couple chooses, their relationship moves from a secretive one to one about which others know. Even so, the young man rarely spends daylight hours with his partner. Instead, he returns to his own family\u2019s home to help with farming and other work there. The state is not involved in their relationship, and their money is not pooled either, though presents change hands. If either partner becomes disenchanted with the other, the relationship need not persist. Their children remain in the mother\u2019s home, nurtured by adults who love them deeply\u2014not just by their mothers but also by their grandmothers, maternal aunts, maternal uncles, and often older cousins as well. They enjoy everyday life with an extended family (Figure 18). The third Na family structure mixes the preceding two systems. Someone joins a larger household as a spouse. Perhaps the family lacked enough women or men to manage the household and farming tasks adequately or the couple faced pressure from the government to marry.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Text-Box-para\">As an anthropologist who has done fieldwork in Na communities since 2001, I can attest to the loving and nurturing families their system encourages. It protects adults as well as children. Women who are suffering in a relationship can end it with limited consequences for their children, who do not need to relocate to a new house and adjust to a new lifestyle. Lawyers need not get involved, as they often must in divorce cases elsewhere in the world. A man who cannot afford to build a new house for his family\u2014a significant pressure for people in many areas of China that prevents young men from marrying or delays their marriages\u2014can still enjoy a relationship or can choose, instead, to devote himself to his role as an uncle. Women and men who do not feel the urge to pursue romantic lives are protected in this system as well; they can contribute to their natal families without having to worry that no one will look out for them as they age.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Text-Box-para\">Like any system composed of real people, Na systems are not perfect, and neither are the people who represent them. In the last few decades, people have flocked to Lugu Lake hoping to catch a glimpse of this unusual society, and many tourists and tour guides have mistakenly taken Na flexibility in relationships as signifying a land of casual sex with no recognition of paternity. These are highly problematic assumptions that offend my Na acquaintances deeply. Na people have fathers and know who they are, and they often enjoy close relationships despite living apart. In fact, fathers are deeply involved in children\u2019s lives and often participate in everyday child-rearing activities. Of course, as in other parts of the world, some fathers participate more than others. Fathers and their birth families also take responsibility for contributing to school expenses and make other financial contributions as circumstances permit. Clearly, this is not a community in which men do not fulfill responsibilities as fathers. It is one in which the responsibilities and how they are fulfilled varies markedly from those of fathers living in other places and cultures.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Text-Box-para\">Though problems exist in Na communities and their relationship patterns are already changing and transforming them, it is encouraging that so many people can live satisfied lives in this flexible system. The Na shatter our expectations about how families and relationships should be organized. They also inspire us to ask whether we can, and should, adapt part of their ethos into our own society.<span class=\"Endnote-reference CharOverride-9\"><a class=\"footnote\" title=\"Material in this text box was adapted from \u201cWhat Can We Learn from the Na? Shattering Ideas about Family and Relationships,\u201d a TEDx FurmanU presentation by Tami Blumenfield. See also Tami Blumenfield, \u201cChinese Tour Groups in Europe, Chinese Tour Groups in Yunnan: Narrating a Nation in the World\u201d\u00a0The China BeatJune 2, 2011.\u00a0http:\/\/www.thechinabeat.org\/?p=3494; Siobhan M. Mattison, Brooke Scelza, and Tami Blumenfield, \u201cPaternal Investment and the Positive Effects of Fathers among the Matrilineal Mosuo (Na) of Southwest China\u201dAmerican Anthropologist116 no. 3 (2014): 591\u2013610; Tami Blumenfield, \u201cResilience in Mountainous Southwest China: Adopting a Socio-Ecological Approach to Community Change,\u201d in\u00a0Worlds in the Making: Interethnicity and the Processes of Generating Meaning in Southwestern China, Cahiers d\u2019Extr\u00eame Asie23 (2014)\" id=\"return-footnote-196-17\" href=\"#footnote-196-17\" aria-label=\"Footnote 17\"><sup class=\"footnote\">[17]<\/sup><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Text-Box-para-last ParaOverride-9\">For more information, see the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=KFUnKQ0HTGs\"><span class=\"Hyperlink\">TEDx FurmanU presentation<\/span><\/a> by Tami Blumenfield.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" id=\"oembed-1\" title=\"What can we learn from the Na? Ideas about family and relationships | Tami Blumenfield | TEDxFurmanU\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/KFUnKQ0HTGs?feature=oembed&#38;rel=0\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<h2 class=\"H1\">FAMILIES AND CULTURE CHANGE\u00a0<em>by\u00a0Mary Kay Gilliland<\/em><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal\">Families are adaptive groups that help address common societal concerns related to child-rearing, sexual relationships between adults, and gender roles within the household. While there are norms and ideals, expectations and understandings regarding families in all cultures, there are also always situations that represent variations on that norm. Sometimes these are areas where we begin to see culture change. In the United States in the 1960s, young people began to live together openly outside of marriage as couples. Those relationships were often socially disapproved, but today it is much more socially acceptable and common for people to live together prior to marriage or even instead of marriage. Often the couple will also have children before they decide to marry. An ideological variation that began nearly sixty years ago has led to a widespread culture change in attitudes toward marriage.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">In the Croatian Republic of Yugoslavia in the 1980s, shortly after the death of long-time leader Josip Broz \u201cTito,\u201d it was still expected that a young couple would live with a husband\u2019s family at marriage. At that time, I was engaged in fieldwork that focused on social change. The socialist government had implemented legislation and social programs to support women moving out of traditional roles, becoming educated and productive members of the workforce, and participating in the professional class. There was state-funded daycare and liberal legislation regarding birth control and abortion among other efforts to improve or change the traditional roles of women.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">In reality, however, marriage and parenthood were still highly valued. Couples often married at a young age and women tended to still be responsible for all housework. Women themselves valued keeping a clean house, cooking homemade food from scratch without using prepared foods, and caring for their families. Most young wives and mothers lived with their husbands\u2019 families. Traditionally, mothers of sons gained power and respect in the family from their married son and daughter-in-law. In the past this relationship was sometimes described as a difficult one, with a daughter-in-law having little say in family and household life. Some of that seemed to persist in the 1980s. Women living with mothers-in-law did not have a great deal of freedom of choice and had to prove themselves at home, leaving less time to think about progressing in education or work.<a class=\"footnote\" title=\"Olsen, M. K. G., \u201cAuthority and Conflict in Slavonian Households: The Effects of Social Environment on Intra-Household Processes\u201d in The Household Economy: Reconsidering the Domestic Mode of Production, Richard Wilk, ed., 149-170 (Colorado: Westview Press, 1989).\" id=\"return-footnote-196-18\" href=\"#footnote-196-18\" aria-label=\"Footnote 18\"><sup class=\"footnote\">[18]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">In an urban environment, however, housing was in short supply. If a family had two sons and one was already married and still living with his natal family, the second son might live with the wife\u2019s family at marriage if that family had the space. In these situations, which were not considered ideal but still were in the range of acceptable alternatives, young married women found themselves living with their own mothers rather than a mother-in-law. A mother tended to make life easier for her own daughter rather than insisting that she do quite so much household work. Mothers and daughters were more often easy partners in a household. The mother-in-law of a young man tended not to make his life difficult, but rather to regard him fondly. Women who lived with their own families after marriage were more likely to be able to continue their education, take promotions at work, make more of the opportunities that were provided under socialism.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">In Croatia, government engineered policies alone did not produce changes in family patterns or gender roles. It was a variety of factors, including economic pressures and housing shortages, which combined to create an environment in which families changed. It became increasingly common for couples to live with the wife\u2019s family and eventually to live on their own. Today in Croatia, women have a great deal of freedom of choice, are likely to live alone with their husbands or, like in the United States, Canada, and European countries, to live with a partner outside of marriage. Change occurs in family life when social and cultural conditions also change.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"H1\">CONCLUSION\u00a0<em>by\u00a0Mary Kay Gilliland<\/em><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal\">The institutions of the family and marriage are found in all societies and are part of cultural understandings of the way the world should work. In all cultures there are variations that are acceptable as well as situations in which people cannot quite meet the ideal. How people construct families varies greatly from one society to another, but there are patterns across cultures that are linked to economics, religion, and other cultural and environmental factors. The study of families and marriage is an important part of anthropology because family and household groups play a central role in defining relationships between people and making society function. While there is nothing in biology that dictates that a family group be organized in a particular way, our cultural expectations leads to ideas about families that seem \u201cnatural\u201d to us. As cultures change over time, ideas about family also adapt to new circumstances.<\/p>\n<div class=\"textbox exercises\">\n<h3>DISCUSSION QUESTIONS<\/h3>\n<ol>\n<li class=\"Discussion-Questions-numbered\">\n<p class=\"Normal\">Why is it important for anthropologists to understand the kinship, descent, and family relationships that exist in the cultures they study? In what ways can family relationships structure the lives of individuals?<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"Discussion-Questions-numbered\">\n<p class=\"Normal\">Status and role define the position of people within the family as well as the behaviors they are expected to perform. What are some of the statuses and roles found in families in your community? How have these changed over time?<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"Discussion-Questions-numbered\">\n<p class=\"Normal\">In this chapter, Gilliland describes several different patterns of family organization including nuclear families, extended families, and joint families. While small nuclear families are common in the United States, larger families are common in many other societies. What do you think are some of the practical effects of both small and large families on everyday life?<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\t\t\t <section class=\"citations-section\" role=\"contentinfo\">\n\t\t\t <h3>Candela Citations<\/h3>\n\t\t\t\t\t <div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t <div id=\"citation-list-196\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t <div class=\"licensing\"><div class=\"license-attribution-dropdown-subheading\">CC licensed content, Shared previously<\/div><ul class=\"citation-list\"><li>Perspectives: An Open Invitation to Cultural Anthropology. <strong>Authored by<\/strong>: Edited by Nina Brown, Laura Tubelle de Gonzalez, and Thomas McIlwraith. <strong>Provided by<\/strong>: American Anthropological Association. <strong>Located at<\/strong>: <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/perspectives.americananthro.org\/\">http:\/\/perspectives.americananthro.org\/<\/a>. <strong>License<\/strong>: <em><a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"license\" href=\"https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc\/4.0\/\">CC BY-NC: Attribution-NonCommercial<\/a><\/em><\/li><li>Family and Marraige. <strong>Authored by<\/strong>: Mary Kay Gilliland. <strong>Provided by<\/strong>: Central Arizona College. <strong>Located at<\/strong>: <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/perspectives.americananthro.org\/Chapters\/Family_and_Marriage.pdf\">http:\/\/perspectives.americananthro.org\/Chapters\/Family_and_Marriage.pdf<\/a>. <strong>License<\/strong>: <em><a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"license\" href=\"https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc\/4.0\/\">CC BY-NC: Attribution-NonCommercial<\/a><\/em><\/li><li>Gender and Sexuality. <strong>Authored by<\/strong>: Tami Blumenfield. <strong>Provided by<\/strong>: Furman University. <strong>Located at<\/strong>: <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/perspectives.americananthro.org\/Chapters\/Gender_and_Sexuality.pdf\">http:\/\/perspectives.americananthro.org\/Chapters\/Gender_and_Sexuality.pdf<\/a>. <strong>License<\/strong>: <em><a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"license\" href=\"https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc\/4.0\/\">CC BY-NC: Attribution-NonCommercial<\/a><\/em><\/li><li>Gender and Sexuality. <strong>Authored by<\/strong>: Susan Harper. <strong>Provided by<\/strong>: Texas Woman&#039;s University. <strong>Located at<\/strong>: <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/perspectives.americananthro.org\/Chapters\/Gender_and_Sexuality.pdf\">http:\/\/perspectives.americananthro.org\/Chapters\/Gender_and_Sexuality.pdf<\/a>. <strong>License<\/strong>: <em><a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"license\" href=\"https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc\/4.0\/\">CC BY-NC: Attribution-NonCommercial<\/a><\/em><\/li><li>Gender and Sexuality. <strong>Authored by<\/strong>: Abby Gondek. <strong>Located at<\/strong>: <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/perspectives.americananthro.org\/Chapters\/Gender_and_Sexuality.pdf\">http:\/\/perspectives.americananthro.org\/Chapters\/Gender_and_Sexuality.pdf<\/a>. <strong>License<\/strong>: <em><a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"license\" href=\"https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc\/4.0\/\">CC BY-NC: Attribution-NonCommercial<\/a><\/em><\/li><li>Gender and Sexuality. <strong>Authored by<\/strong>: Carol C. Mukhopadhyay. <strong>Provided by<\/strong>: San Jose University. <strong>Located at<\/strong>: <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/perspectives.americananthro.org\/Chapters\/Gender_and_Sexuality.pdf\">http:\/\/perspectives.americananthro.org\/Chapters\/Gender_and_Sexuality.pdf<\/a>. <strong>License<\/strong>: <em><a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"license\" href=\"https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc\/4.0\/\">CC BY-NC: Attribution-NonCommercial<\/a><\/em><\/li><\/ul><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t <\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t <\/div>\n\t\t\t <\/section><hr class=\"before-footnotes clear\" \/><div class=\"footnotes\"><ol><li id=\"footnote-196-1\">In a patrilineal society, children are members of their father\u2019s patrilineage. A mother belongs to her own father\u2019s patrilineage, while the children belong to their father\u2019s patrilinage. <a href=\"#return-footnote-196-1\" class=\"return-footnote\" aria-label=\"Return to footnote 1\">&crarr;<\/a><\/li><li id=\"footnote-196-2\">Kathleen Gough, \u201cVariation in Matrilineal Systems,\u201d in D. Schneider and K. Gough, eds., <em>Matrilineal Kinship<\/em>, Part 2 (Berkeley: University of California Press, 1961). See also Kathleen Gough, <em>The Traditional Kinship System of the Nayars of Malabar<\/em> (Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 1954). <a href=\"#return-footnote-196-2\" class=\"return-footnote\" aria-label=\"Return to footnote 2\">&crarr;<\/a><\/li><li id=\"footnote-196-3\">See for example Merlin Myers, Households and Families of the Longhouse Iroquois at Six Nations Reserve (Lincoln, NE: University of Nebraska Press, 2006). <a href=\"#return-footnote-196-3\" class=\"return-footnote\" aria-label=\"Return to footnote 3\">&crarr;<\/a><\/li><li id=\"footnote-196-4\">Melford Spiro, <em>Kinship and Marriage in Burma: A Cultural and Psychodynamic Analysis<\/em> (Berkeley, CA: University of California Press, 1977). <a href=\"#return-footnote-196-4\" class=\"return-footnote\" aria-label=\"Return to footnote 4\">&crarr;<\/a><\/li><li id=\"footnote-196-5\">Laura Tubelle de Gonz\u00e1lez, \u201cModern Arranged Marriage in Mumbai\u201d <em>Teaching Anthropology: SACC Notes<\/em> 19 (2015). http:\/\/sacc-dev.americananthro.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/TASN-191-192-spring-fall-20131.pdf.\u00a0 <a href=\"#return-footnote-196-5\" class=\"return-footnote\" aria-label=\"Return to footnote 5\">&crarr;<\/a><\/li><li id=\"footnote-196-6\">The one-child policy was introduced in 1979. It was phased out beginning in 2015 and was replaced by a two-child policy. <a href=\"#return-footnote-196-6\" class=\"return-footnote\" aria-label=\"Return to footnote 6\">&crarr;<\/a><\/li><li id=\"footnote-196-7\">There are many news reports about this practice. See for instance Subodh Varnal, \u201cDowry Death: One Bride Burnt Every Hour,\u201d <em>The Times of India<\/em>, January 27, 2012 http:\/\/timesofindia.indiatimes.com\/india\/Dowry-death-One-bride-burnt-every-hour\/articleshow\/11644691.cms <a href=\"#return-footnote-196-7\" class=\"return-footnote\" aria-label=\"Return to footnote 7\">&crarr;<\/a><\/li><li id=\"footnote-196-8\">Justin McCarthy, \u201cSame-Sex Marriage Support Reaches New High at 55%.\u201d Gallup. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gallup.com\/poll\/169640\/sex-marriage-support-reaches-new-high.aspx\">http:\/\/www.gallup.com\/ poll\/169640\/sex-marriage-support-reaches-new-high.aspx<\/a>. <a href=\"#return-footnote-196-8\" class=\"return-footnote\" aria-label=\"Return to footnote 8\">&crarr;<\/a><\/li><li id=\"footnote-196-9\">Ellen Lewin and William Leap, <em>Out in Theory: The Emergence of Lesbian and Gay Anthropology<\/em> (Urbana: University of Illinois Press, 2002); William Leap and Ellen Lewin, <em>Out in the Field: Reflections of Lesbian and Gay Anthropologist<\/em> (Urbana: University of Illinois Press, 1996). <a href=\"#return-footnote-196-9\" class=\"return-footnote\" aria-label=\"Return to footnote 9\">&crarr;<\/a><\/li><li id=\"footnote-196-10\">Jessica Johnson, \u201cThe Citizen-Soldier: Masculinity, War, and Sacrifice at an Emerging Church in Seattle, Washington.\u201d <em>Political and Legal Anthropology Review<\/em> 33 no. 2 (2010): 326\u2013351. <a href=\"#return-footnote-196-10\" class=\"return-footnote\" aria-label=\"Return to footnote 10\">&crarr;<\/a><\/li><li id=\"footnote-196-11\">Tamara Metz, <em>Untying the Knot: Marriage, the State, and the Case for Their Divorce<\/em> (Princeton: Princeton University Press, 2010). <a href=\"#return-footnote-196-11\" class=\"return-footnote\" aria-label=\"Return to footnote 11\">&crarr;<\/a><\/li><li id=\"footnote-196-12\">Miriam Smith, \u201cGender Politics and the Same-Sex Marriage Debate in the United States,\u201d Social Politics 17 no. 1 (2010): 1\u201328. Quote is on p.1 <a href=\"#return-footnote-196-12\" class=\"return-footnote\" aria-label=\"Return to footnote 12\">&crarr;<\/a><\/li><li id=\"footnote-196-13\">Martha Ward, <em>Nest in the Wind: Adventures in Anthropology on a Tropical Island<\/em> (Long Grove, IL: Waveland Press, 2005). <a href=\"#return-footnote-196-13\" class=\"return-footnote\" aria-label=\"Return to footnote 13\">&crarr;<\/a><\/li><li id=\"footnote-196-14\"> Margery Wolf, <em>Women and the Family in Rural Taiwan<\/em> (Palo Alto, CA: Stanford University Press, 1972). <a href=\"#return-footnote-196-14\" class=\"return-footnote\" aria-label=\"Return to footnote 14\">&crarr;<\/a><\/li><li id=\"footnote-196-15\">Ibid. <a href=\"#return-footnote-196-15\" class=\"return-footnote\" aria-label=\"Return to footnote 15\">&crarr;<\/a><\/li><li id=\"footnote-196-16\">See<a href=\"https:\/\/contemporaryfamilies.org\/the-way-we-still-never-were-brief-report\/\"><span class=\"Hyperlink\">https:\/\/contemporaryfamilies.org\/the-way-we-still-never-were-brief-report\/<\/span><\/a>and<a href=\"https:\/\/www.pri.org\/stories\/%202014-09-14\/singles-now-outnumber-married-people-america-and-thats-good-\"><span class=\"Hyperlink\">https:\/\/www.pri.org\/stories\/\r\n2014-09-14\/singles-now-outnumber-married-people-america-and-thats-good-thing<\/span><\/a>for background and links to detailed information<em>.<\/em> <a href=\"#return-footnote-196-16\" class=\"return-footnote\" aria-label=\"Return to footnote 16\">&crarr;<\/a><\/li><li id=\"footnote-196-17\">Material in this text box was adapted from \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=KFUnKQ0HTGs\"><span class=\"Hyperlink\">What Can We Learn from the Na? Shattering Ideas about Family and Relationships<\/span><\/a>,\u201d a TEDx FurmanU presentation by Tami Blumenfield. See also Tami Blumenfield, \u201cChinese Tour Groups in Europe, Chinese Tour Groups in Yunnan: Narrating a Nation in the World\u201d\u00a0<span class=\"CharOverride-5\"><em>The China Beat<\/em><\/span>June 2, 2011.\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.thechinabeat.org\/?p=3494\"><span class=\"Hyperlink\">http:\/\/www.thechinabeat.org\/?p=3494<\/span><\/a>; Siobhan M. Mattison, Brooke Scelza, and Tami Blumenfield, \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.academia.edu\/8442982\/Paternal_Investment_and_the_Positive_Effects_of_Fathers_among_the_Matrilineal_Mosuo_of_Southwest_China\"><span class=\"Hyperlink\">Paternal Investment and the Positive Effects of Fathers among the Matrilineal Mosuo (Na) of Southwest China<\/span><\/a>\u201d<em><span class=\"CharOverride-5\">American Anthropologist<\/span><\/em>116 no. 3 (2014): 591\u2013610; Tami Blumenfield, \u201cResilience in Mountainous Southwest China: Adopting a Socio-Ecological Approach to Community Change,\u201d in\u00a0<span class=\"CharOverride-5\"><em>Worlds in the Making: Interethnicity and the Processes of Generating Meaning in Southwestern China, Cahiers d\u2019Extr\u00eame Asie<\/em><\/span>23 (2014) <a href=\"#return-footnote-196-17\" class=\"return-footnote\" aria-label=\"Return to footnote 17\">&crarr;<\/a><\/li><li id=\"footnote-196-18\">Olsen, M. K. G., \u201cAuthority and Conflict in Slavonian Households: The Effects of Social Environment on Intra-Household Processes\u201d in <em>The Household Economy: Reconsidering the Domestic Mode of Production<\/em>, Richard Wilk, ed., 149-170 (Colorado: Westview Press, 1989). <a href=\"#return-footnote-196-18\" class=\"return-footnote\" aria-label=\"Return to footnote 18\">&crarr;<\/a><\/li><\/ol><\/div>","protected":false},"author":311,"menu_order":15,"template":"","meta":{"_candela_citation":"[{\"type\":\"cc\",\"description\":\"Perspectives: An Open Invitation to Cultural Anthropology\",\"author\":\"Edited by Nina Brown, Laura Tubelle de Gonzalez, and Thomas McIlwraith\",\"organization\":\"American Anthropological Association\",\"url\":\"http:\/\/perspectives.americananthro.org\/\",\"project\":\"\",\"license\":\"cc-by-nc\",\"license_terms\":\"\"},{\"type\":\"cc\",\"description\":\"Family and Marraige\",\"author\":\"Mary Kay Gilliland\",\"organization\":\"Central Arizona College\",\"url\":\"http:\/\/perspectives.americananthro.org\/Chapters\/Family_and_Marriage.pdf\",\"project\":\"\",\"license\":\"cc-by-nc\",\"license_terms\":\"\"},{\"type\":\"cc\",\"description\":\"Gender and Sexuality\",\"author\":\"Tami Blumenfield\",\"organization\":\"Furman University\",\"url\":\"http:\/\/perspectives.americananthro.org\/Chapters\/Gender_and_Sexuality.pdf\",\"project\":\"\",\"license\":\"cc-by-nc\",\"license_terms\":\"\"},{\"type\":\"cc\",\"description\":\"Gender and Sexuality\",\"author\":\"Susan Harper\",\"organization\":\"Texas Woman\\'s University\",\"url\":\"http:\/\/perspectives.americananthro.org\/Chapters\/Gender_and_Sexuality.pdf\",\"project\":\"\",\"license\":\"cc-by-nc\",\"license_terms\":\"\"},{\"type\":\"cc\",\"description\":\"Gender and Sexuality\",\"author\":\"Abby Gondek\",\"organization\":\"\",\"url\":\"http:\/\/perspectives.americananthro.org\/Chapters\/Gender_and_Sexuality.pdf\",\"project\":\"\",\"license\":\"cc-by-nc\",\"license_terms\":\"\"},{\"type\":\"cc\",\"description\":\"Gender and Sexuality\",\"author\":\"Carol C. 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